8/31 & 9/1/18 Out of Body Experiences: Unfolding Angel Wings and Dragons

Dragons

Hi,

I am sharing two  significant out of body experiences (OBEs) I had which were mystical in nature. In one my angel wings unfolded and I channeled a song from an angelic Light Being in another non-physical dimensional landscape.   It is extraordinary because this is the first time since I have started having lucid OBES since my spiritual awakening of 2009 where I actually felt my angel wings unfold and I channeled an song from an angelic type Being. And it was for an extended time during the OBE. I share the details of this OBE near the end of this post.

I felt guided to document these non-ordinary OBEs for posterity reasons.  I am so glad I took the time to share some of my earlier OBEs in detail.  It is amazing to reflect back on them to track my spiritual development. This blog post also serves as a valuable teaching in how reflecting on your OBEs can reveal insightful information to you about your life and your spiritual progression.

I have had other experiences with sensing my angel wings. Please see my earlier blog post:

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/angels-in-denim-song-angel-wings-unfolding/

Please see the end of this post to read more about my background. It may help make more sense to the readers who are not familiar with my blog and how I go about sharing these arcane topics.

During this OBE, this unfamiliar angelic type Being used my voice box to express herself and I was just the conduit. I did not control what was coming out of my mouth. The phrase I remember singing throughout this OBE was “Spread your wings and fly.” I do feel that was an important broadcast message not just for me but for everyone.

I would classify this OBE as a mystical OBE as I laid out in my conceptual framework for OBEs at:

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/out-of-body-experiences-conceptual-framework/

Significance of these OBEs

Because of its uniqueness, I do feel this OBE marks a significant development of my spiritual development. And because it comes just one day after another mystical OBE I had where I was eating dragon head meat, I feel the Universe is imparting a message to me.  It is unusual for me to have two mystical OBEs two days in a row.

These portended an acceleration of my spiritual development. I feel these are signs from beyond of the changes and transformations I am undergoing in preparation for my future spiritual work.

I do love mystical OBEs. But let me just add, they are SOOO much more fun when you feel your life is not in peril during them! Ha! This is an important caveat. Mystical OBEs are the best type of OBE! When you are lucid, mystical OBEs are a blast because you feel like it’s actually happening in real-time with all the vividness of its details of fantasy!

Another Mystical OBE with Dragons on 8/31/18

Let me explain more about another lucid, mystical OBE involving the eating of dragon meat that I experienced the day before this OBE where I felt angel wings unfold from my back and I channeled a song in another dimensional landscape. I know that the eating of dragon meats sounds disgusting and very weird  but there is some deep symbology here. I am going to devote some time to the analysis of this OBE with dragon symbology. This is not to get off topic but to demonstrate that I had two mystical OBEs, back to back in two consecutive days. As I stated earlier, when I have mystical OBES they are usually weeks or months in between. So this was indeed extraordinary.

In this mystical OBE of 8/31/18 during my sleep state, I became lucid to find myself in an unknown interior room. There was a large pot, almost like an iron cauldron. Inside was a single large dragon head. It was not alive. Its eyes were open. It looked like a typical dragon head, scaly, reptilian and ferocious looking.

Then this dragon head appeared on a counter next to me. I knew I was supposed to eat it. But because I was lucid and still carrying my Earthly beliefs with me, I was just grossed out by that and couldn’t do it.  There were three unfamiliar men with me.

Replay of an OBE Scene

Then the dragon head was shown to me again on the counter. The inside of its head was visible. Its head flesh was pure white, like lump crab meat which I do eat. It looked flaky and even tender.  Maybe my subconscious was trying to make it more appetizing for me?  I have found in some of my OBEs a scene may be repeated twice. It is almost like a replay. My theory is this happens as a subconscious mechanism if I am not engaging or interacting in the way I should be. Or it is an opportunity for me to make another different choice in the OBE scene.  So it is shown to me twice so I can make the appropriate decision the second time. That is why the dragon head was shown to me twice on the counter. I have experienced this type of replay commonly in OBEs.

One of the men with me took a forkful of the dragon head meat.  I knew I should or had to. I took two really small forkfuls of the white flesh. Then the OBE ended.

Dragon Symbology

The symbology of the dragon is one of the most ancient and mystical animal totems.  I researched the dragon dream symbology on the internet for this post. I had an inkling of what dragons could represent from my intuition as being about power, strength and mysticism.

What I found out from my research on dragons was that they also symbolized fortune, luck and spirit. I also learned it represented the primal force of nature and wisdom. The dragon is a good symbol of the mystical nature of my work and service since I became spiritual awakened. This includes my unusual trance channeling and having these amazing lucid OBEs in non-physical dimensions from time to time.

Why the Dragon ?

It is a thought-provoking exercise when analyzing your OBEs to contemplate why a specific animal totem or symbol was used. If the Universe wanted me to get the symbol of strength, it could have used the animal totem of a lion or panther. But no. It used a dragon.  If it wanted me to get the symbol of wisdom, it could have used an owl totem. But no. It used a dragon. That is revealing!

Eating Dragon Meat Symbology

The eating of dragon meat represented I was making the dragon qualities part of my being.  The analogy of eating the cracker to represent the body of Christ comes to my mind during Catholic Church rituals. As I am typing this, I keep hearing telepathically “the Eucharist.”

That I only ate a small amount of the dragon meat is reflective of my hesitations in this endeavor.

Whiteness of Dragon Flesh

That the dragon flesh was pure white was symbolic of purity.  That I was eating the flesh from its head and not another part of its body is symbolic of the cerebral nature of the higher level, occult knowledge that the dragon possesses.

My Past Experiences with Dragons

My Interest with Sci-Fi and Fantasy

To give you some perspective, I felt it would be helpful to give you some background on me and dragons. Since I was a young girl, I have always been fascinated with sci-fi and fantasy movies. They are my favorite type of movie. I love the Harry Potter Series, Star Wars, the Matrix Series, the Hobbit, Game of Thrones, etc…

I don’t get into chick flicks.  I do not like horror, mafia, gang or violent war movies.

My First OBE with Dragons 2010

I had my first incredible OBE with dragons in about 2010 or so just a short time after I spiritually awakened in 2009.  As I did not record it at the time, I am chronicling this from memory as I did not record it at the time.

This OBE occurred during my sleep state. I became lucid to find myself in an unfamiliar interior space.  In front of me were about five large white eggs. They could have been ostrich eggs because of their size.  Three of the eggs were hatching and there was a baby dragon in each one! Then the OBE ended.

Looking back at this OBE now and with the knowledge of the most recent dragon OBE I had on 8/31/18, I can better interpret this OBE.  This early OBE marked the advent of my spiritual awakening and early beginning of my journey into the realm of the mysterious, esoteric, and occult and becoming a channeler of Light Beings who exist in other dimensional planes. I am able to hear them telepathically. Dragons are a symbol of that which is mystical and that this OBE showed three of them hatching, not just one,  was a foreshadowing of my new real life mystical talents of mediumship, telepathy and conscious journeying to other dimensional realms during OBEs.

And now eight years later, I had another telling OBE on 9/1/18 where I am eating the white flesh from the head of a mature dragon! From baby dragons hatching from eggs to this! Very interesting!

Dragons During My Reiki

I have not only had dragons in a few of my OBEs but also during some meditative states. In a previous blog post on 3/4/15  I shared I saw dragons when I gave myself Reiki when I was staying in Seattle, WA for a year. To read it, please see:

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/3415-extraordinary-reiki-session-self-healing/

Telepathy on Dragons

In addition, from time to time I hear telepathically “Your dragons…”  Then the rest of the telepathy gets dropped and I don’t hear the end of the statement. I have heard this in 2017 and 2018 only a handful of times, say like five times, since my awakening in 2009. Based on this, I must have more than one dragon! Maybe in another dimensional realm I am not conscious of.

I have telepathically heard that dragons are “winged serpants.”

I sense I have some sort of connection with dragons.  It is not overt but I would describe it as a new subtle awareness of dragons over the past three years.

Earlier OBE with Dragons in 2014

In the third quarter of 2014 I had a dream where I saw a dragon in a wall fresco, spitting fire from a 2nd story building. Also, in Feb. 2015 I called upon dragons  for help and protection when I was free-falling in space during an OBE.

Doozy of an OBE with Dragons in 2015

I had a doozy of an OBE with dragons in about 2015. I think this was the year. I did not blog about it then so I am going off memory here with the details. It was AMAZING! That’s why I still remember it.

I became lucid during my sleep state at night or in the early morning. I was floating vertically and comfortably in a river that was about fifteen feet wide or so. It was a sunny day.

I looked above me. I became incredulous. There was a huge winged dragon high above me flying in the blue cloudy sky. It was about 50 feet above me. Because I was lucid, it felt so real!  The dragon was flying somewhere in its dragon flying style. It looked like a dragon straight out of the TV fiction series “Game of Thrones.”

I got scared. In mid-flight the dragon turned its long neck and looked right at me. He/she definitely saw me. I had the thought “Oh, no! Now, I am done. He/she has seen me!” I could have said then “I am now the one who is dragon meat and going to be eaten by the dragon instead of me eating its head flesh as in the OBE I had three years later!” Haha!

Then I looked ahead of me in the river. A naked man walked out of the water. He had charcoal gray skin. He was in great shape with beautiful satin skin, muscular and lithe. I only saw him from the back. He had two smaller wings coming out of his back!  These wings were about two feet in height.  Flanked to his right was a large dragon that towered feet above him. And flanked to his left was another large dragon.  I think one of these dragons was the one that was from the sky that I had seen.  They seemed to be his escorts.  There was  definitely a unique energetic connection and bond between all three.

When I woke up in bed from this OBE, I was like “Wow!!” That was amazing.  I was so lucid I can still remember the sinewness of the man’s Adonis like physique and the scales and skin of the dragons. I love lucid, mystical OBEs!

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General OBE Information

I will share just a few general recaps of the nature of OBEs before I get into the details of the specific OBE  I had on 9/1/18 to help those who may not be familiar with my writings on this subject. If you have already read this in an earlier one of my blog posts and do not need a summary (though it may be helpful to reread) just skip over this section and go to the next asterisked blocked section.

I have developed an OBE conceptual framework, including definitions, to help others who are having similar experiences and for people in general to understand this topic and to introduce the concept of our human multidimensionality.  Please read it at: http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/out-of-body-experiences-conceptual-framework/

Human beings exist on many levels of consciousness which allows them to travel to and exist on other non Earth dimensional realms. Our consciousness is complex and goes far beyond then just our conscious and subconscious states.  Within our subconscious state there are multiple tiers of consciousness.

We can lucidly visit these alternate dimensions in our altered states of consciousness. We have past, present, concurrent and future lifetimes in these other dimensional frequencies. I know this because I have experienced these in OBEs and received telepathic information on these since my spiritual awakening in 2009.

In states of deep relaxation as in meditation or sleep we can catch glimpses of these and recall our dimensional travels. Many of my OBEs happen spontaneously and naturally when I am sleeping which is how this one occurred.

OBEs are not readily talked about. It is a new frontier of human consciousness. This blog post is fulfillment of my soul mission to teach others about OBEs.  I am a pioneer like Amelia Earhart was in females in aviation.  I did receive an affirming clairvoyant vision of her, not just an image but a moving vision, of  this a few years ago. Clairvoyantly, I saw her outside in front of her airplane in her pilot’s uniform of that era and wearing her aviator glasses. Then she was in the cockpit of her airplane on takeoff. She had a beautiful wide smile with amazing teeth. After, I did some internet research on her. The images of her confirmed that indeed, she was the female I saw in my vision.

My OBE conceptual framework is evolving which I tweak, including adding to and enhancing, as I need to with each OBE I experience.  It is an evolving work in process. I started developing this framework in the Spring of 2009 of my spiritual awakening when I started having numerous lucid OBEs. I wanted to understand what I was experiencing and to see if there were any patterns. Hence, I created the framework.

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My OBE of 9/1/18 when I Channeled an Angelic Being and My Angel Wings Unfolded

Here is more detail on the OBE I had on 9/1/18 which spurred me to write this post.

OBE Specs: 9/1/18 Saturday. To be noted it is the first day of September. This OBE occurred sometime in the a.m. between 7:30-8:00 a.m. on 9/1/18 Saturday morning while I was in the altered state of consciousness of sleep.

I became lucid to find myself standing outside on a sunny day in an unfamiliar area.  There were some unfamiliar people milling about. I felt some activity in my throat area. I knew a Being was going to come spontaneously through my voice.  Then I start channeling a song from this Being out loud.

Now I am moving forward quickly. I start to fly. As I fly, I feel two large wings unfold from my back. I know they are angel wings. I am channeling a song as my large wings are undulating. Within a few seconds I am in the center of what looks like a large outside mall. This mall is huge, with multiple floors. It has a center space that is open to the outside.  You can say this mall type building was built almost like a doughnut with the hole of the doughnut being a courtyard or outside space.

I am in this space. I am flying past one of the upper floors. I know I am going to freak people out and surprise them, especially when they see the full span of my angel wings.  I can hear people’s “oohs” and “ahs” from the interior as I fly past the windows.  I am singing a  channeled song and singing the phrase “Spread your wings and fly. “

I attempt to see if I can see the reflection of my angel wings reflection in the large windows of the mall type building.  I couldn’t see them clearly but I knew they were there.

As I was flying and singing in this central outside area of the mall, I knew this was going to become a world event. People were recording videos and taking photos of me.

Please know I don’t want to appear arrogant or of hubris. When I chronicle these type of observations during OBEs or other times of my life, I think some people will think I want attention or want to feel important. Maybe there is a subconscious part of me that is like that! However, consciously know I am documenting all aspects of the OBE for educational purposes to share with others, not to toot my own horn.

Type of Earthly 3-D Thoughts When You Are Lucid

During this OBE, I also had the thought that children were watching me and I had the concern that I was telling them to “Spread their wings and fly” that they may jump out windows in their attempts to fly and they would get hurt. I thought I shouldn’t be singing this. Then I had the thought that people would know not to take that literally and for me not to worry about that. This is a good example of how your Earthly thoughts and attitudes can affect you to cause anxiety when you are lucid in OBEs.

I also had the thought that there were going to be many businesses who were going to manufacture angel wings to sell for children as a result of this event. I wanted to tell the audience that I was flying past that I did not endorse any company’s angel wing products! I thought I should say that to them. I know. Very silly! Again, another example of how being lucid during OBEs causes unusual thoughts to come up as one tries to balance the goings on of a different, distinctive dimension using the thought system of the Earthly world.

As I was flying in this outside central area, I was making an intentional effort to fly and hover at specific floors. I knew the spectators all wanted to get a glimpse of me. I circulated myself around. I even did this tactic where I thought I was hovering outside of one floor too long so I flew higher and then turned around so others behind me can be given the opportunity to see me.

The OBE ends.

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Editing Caveat

Please know I am the only editor of this post so excuse any grammatical or editing errors.  I do several editing passes before publishing but gosh darn it, there always seems to be some typos I overlooked! Because I gift this as a free resource for my readers as part of my soul’s service during this incarnation, I do not pay anyone to help me with the editing. Thank-you in advance for your understanding so please forgive me for any errors you may encounter!

Copyright © Katibe Simmone. All Rights Reserved. You may copy and redistribute this material, including excerpts as long as you do not alter it in any way, and the content remains accurate, is distributed freely or commercially, and you include this copyright notice and link: http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/ .

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About Katibe

Welcome!

I am an advanced channeler of Light Beings.  I provide guidance from many different Light Beings and shares their wisdom on my Facebook, blog, videos and in my free eBook.  I am unique in that I channel these Beings word for word through telepathic means.  They act as high level guides and teachers to help and inspire you on your life journey.

I had a spiritual awakening in 2009.  I realized I was a spiritual being in a physical body for my highest spiritual evolution to becoming an expressed Divine Being in physical form.  Because of this increased level of consciousness, my psychic centers and specific chakras like my Third Eye and Crown Chakra were activated.  I developed heightened extrasensory perceptions such as clairvoyance, clairaudience and the ability to receive some information telepathically. Telepathy is a form of clairaudience, the psychic sense of hearing.

Because of my awakening my dream time also changed dramatically.  As a result I became a lucid dreamer. I have blogged about and shared videos of some of my more extraordinary OBEs.

I heard telepathically to teach what I know.  I have heard the word “tenzin” which means upholder of teachings in Tibetan a few times since my awakening. I founded Soul Evolution Center in February 2013 to help you evolve into your best life.  I am a published author, speaker and workshop facilitator on various spiritual and metaphysical topics.  I offer many developmental workshops and certifications that can be customized in private, small or large groups by webinar, Skype and teleconference.

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Adultery: The Energetic Impact

Adultery The Energetic Impact

Background on this Post 

As a light worker, I felt guided to write this piece from the unique perspective of the energy of adultery. This writing goes beyond judgement to reveal the energetic components of adulterous activities. Some of the excerpts from below are from my upcoming e-book “Emotional Healing through Spiritual Awakening.”

Purpose of this Post

This post was intended to create contemplation about the nature of adultery, divert those who may have been planning to stray outside their matrimonial bonds, their states of engagement or other relationships of implied commitment to embark in such activities and to stop those from further engaging in such acts of infidelity. By presenting it through an energetic lens and the Universal Law of Karma, I hope this will create an additional impetus for people to amend their ways.

This post aims to plant the seeds of compassion and hence extend peace to our fellow brothers and sisters when we truly don’t want to cause any more hurt or heartbreak in this world. Amen!

When people engage in sexual relations with their fellow married humans outside their matrimonial bonds or when they are in other committed relationships, not only do they possibly break up families to result in divorce but the energetic balance of key relationships are changed and have the potentiality to create low vibrational karma, which will then need to be rebalanced in this lifetime or future lifetimes.

I first shared this writing on my personal Facebook on 8/8/18. My Facebook (FB) and blog are authentic expressions of who I am.  On my FB I stated to my those who disagree with my views to feel free to unfriend me if they feel called to do so as we are disharmonic in this specific viewpoint and that is A-OK. The planet Earth is an amazing place of diverse views though at our essence we are all one and we all are Diving Beings.

I am perfectly confident in this expression.  I stand in my Truth.  Below is what I shared on my FB with some additions:

This Lions Gate of Thursday 8/8/18 in the new moon of Leo is a time to set intentions, have fresh starts and new beginnings. On this day of strong celestial influences, I am pondering something that has bothered me for a long time and which I finally have the courage to express.

To give you some background on how this post came to be, all day long I have been receiving clairvoyant images and visions of two female FB friends with the corresponding psychic downloads of their adulterous transgressions. There is no doubt as to their actions because it is public information within their personal spheres.

About Psychic Transmissions

I received these clairvoyant transmissions out of the blue and spontaneously. Why was I receiving these? They appeared to me to be random and make no sense.  After some thought I on this, I came to the following realization:

I have learned since my spiritual awakening of 2009 that nothing I receive psychically is accidental. I have learned that these type of transmissions where information about people in my life or events waft into my mind out of blue and consistently are the ways that Universe delivers specific subjects of inspirations for me to contemplate or for me to get involved. This is how I receive my work assignments from the Big Boss (i.e. the Creator).

In 2017 and 2018  I have finally learned not to question these psychic downloads and not to become frustrated by this “interference” into my thoughts. I admit in the past, I would get mad because it was a distraction to me and it took me away from whatever 3 dimensional earthly task I was involved in. I did not invite this psychic activity into my mind and in no way did I initiate it on a conscious level. Sometimes, I was very confused as to why I was receiving these. I thought my ego was creating these.

Another Example of Receiving Psychic Downloads

I am going to share another recent example of how I received uninvited psychic downloads to support my teaching that those who are psychically sensitive may get these from time to time as part of their light work responsibility. For a period of weeks in the summer of 2017 unexpectedly I would receive downloads of a certain girlfriend and her materialistic, selfish and superficial tendencies. She wasn’t always like this of course but there were enough instances of it during the years I knew her that I knew she had some sort of narcissist, needy emotional pattern in this regard. Of course, she has some beautiful traits as well or I wouldn’t be her friend. We are all multi-faceted and have our light and our shadows.

As I reflected on the causes of her focus on materialism, I felt maybe during childhood she had not received what she wanted or when she wanted it from her caregivers. She may have felt deprived. When she became an adult she developed thought patterns that she was due those things. It was very telling too because a few of my other friends when they  met her for the first time in different environments voluntarily make a comment to me about that materialistic shadow part of her! I couldn’t believe it. So that is how I knew there was a grain of truth as to what I sensed already and these psychic visions. It validated what I was receiving. It was not my ego making this stuff up!

I would receive these visions bundled with a knowingness about her superficial aspects at random times, like when I was jogging around my neighborhood, doing dishes, and a lot of other times.  Since 2009 of my awakening I had been working on becoming less judgmental so I was very surprised to receive this psychic information. I didn’t want to receive this about my friend.  Sometimes, ignorance is bliss. Sigh!

After I learned through deduction, I was receiving these because these specific attitudes and false belief systems were impacting her life detrimentally and causing her to make detrimental decisions in her life and be with partners that over time she was incompatible with. She was choosing money and financial security over other very important criteria necessary in a solid, loving relationship like mutual respect.

In a way I was being bombarded by these visions and knowingnesses in regards to her over a period of weeks with the same message, played over and over again. It was a few months later I deciphered I was meant to help her with this. She is in my soul tribe and in 2018 I clearly heard telepathically one of the reasons I incarnated was to help specific members of my soul tribe.

Not to divert too much from the topic of this post but I feel some of you may be curious as to how I broached this subject with my girlfriend. I didn’t do it directly because when I tuned into the situation, I sensed it would backfire. What person likes to hear that they are overly materialistic, selfish and concerned with a finer lifestyle?  Instead, I used these psychic deliveries to become aware and exemplify and demonstrate to her through my words and actions the importance of other qualities over

My Teaching About Psychic Missives

After receiving such psychic deliveries over time, I learned they were deliberate missives, intentional and purposeful.

I share this with you to teach you in case you are also receiving such transmissions from beyond. Don’t poo poo them or discredit their authenticity. Don’t feel like they are a bother as I have done in the past. Take the time to halt whatever you are doing and go into inner stillness or meditation to delve into the their meaning. They are being sent to you for a specific reason. I have learned this so I share my experiences to help you.

My Service

After a few hours of receiving these repeated visions of these two ladies linked to their associated adulterous affairs, which wafted in and out of my mind during the day, I got it. I knew I was meant to do my service and disseminate information on this topic in a unique way through my writings to teach and educate others. Being a teacher and a messenger is part of my soul purpose during this current incarnation.

My Turkish first name of Katibe means “scribe.” After my spiritual awakening I learned to embody this. Therefore, this writing piece is my contribution to benefit humanity and a fulfillment of my divine duty. Each of us is called to service in different ways. This is mine. I know some may have difficulty understanding the unusual way I work. I admit it is even weird to me!

The Egoic Defense of Adultery

I know there are many adulterers who have excuses for their actions and their egos will defend their dalliances with the false premises that it is with proper cause, etc… This post is not an analysis of the validity and underlying reasons why one may commit adultery and to be unfaithful. I am not that judge.

I am familiar with many of the stories surrounding adultery:  “We no longer sleep together. We sleep in separate bedrooms”, ” He/She does not give me as much sex or the kind of sex I need”, “He/She does not give me the attention I need”, “We have grown apart in our marriage…We don’t love each other anymore”, “My partner is physically or mentally sick/unhealthy and unable to physically/emotionally nurture me”, “I need to stay with my partner for the children or financial reasons”, “It is against my religion to get divorced”, “My partner travels a lot and I am lonely”, “I just was horny”, “I was drunk and did not know what I was doing.” The reasons or excuses go on and on.

I am here to share the energetic ramifications of adultery. As an empath and energy worker, I can sense the shift of energy of when people stray beyond their family bonds to affect those who are innocent like the children and spouses or significant others who have been cheated on.

Sacral Chakra Influences

It is to be acknowledged that there will be a percentage of men and women who are dominated by their sacral chakra, the seat of human sexuality and the chakra associated with the male and female reproductive organs. These people are of lower consciousness and vibration. I pray they evolve to higher levels of consciousness to transcend their base, primal nature. We are so much more than our sexual nature. We need to learn to rise above this.

Balancing the Karma of Adultery

About Energy

Because this is an energetic perspective on adultery, let me explain more about energy:

Albert Einstein said, “Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it.” Therefore, because all is energy, it can be said that everything has a vibration and frequency. (I use these the words, vibration and frequency, interchangeably.) This includes all inanimate and organic matter and consciousness. All living organisms and matter have some level of measurable frequencies on numerous levels from their entire form down to the cellular level.

All that is seen and unseen across all the dimensional planes is energy, including the dimensions themselves.  Energy is the driving force life and happening all around us and within us. It is the strength and vitality required for physical, mental, emotional or spiritual activity.

Vibration (or Frequency)

It is important to understand the term “vibration” because adultery is an activity of low vibration or low-frequency. Vibrations range from low to neutral to high. Low frequency correlates to a low vibration and high frequency to a high vibration. Every thought, emotion, word and activity has a vibration.

The vibration of energy can travel and have impact. These vibrations exist on non-physical dimensions. This includes your thoughts, words and behaviors, including adulterous ones. Nothing you think, say or do happens in a vacuum. All has a ripple effect and some level of impact because it is energy.

Being an energetic being, you are affected by the vibrations in and around you, those that you create yourself by your own thoughts and those from others.

Clairsentience

Some people like empaths, light workers, including energy workers can actually sense energy and vibration on some levels. Clairsentience is the psychic sense of sensing, an innate sense we are all born with. It is a psychic sense to supplement our physical senses. In some people like myself and other light workers, energy workers and empaths, this sense may be heightened.

Clairsentience can be developed over time if you learn to use and apply it. I have learned to value this ability as it helps me to navigate through my life more efficiently and increases the qualities of all of my relationships and human interactions.

I teach classes on the human psychic senses.

The Animal Kingdom fully utilizes their instincts and energetic sensingness. Humans are still evolving toward their energetic sensingness in this new astrological Age of Aquarius we are in. Prior to this age, humans were in the Age of Pisces. Each age lasts for approximately 2200 years.

If you are not energetically acute and sensitive and mainly work from your cerebral center rather than your intuitive sense, you may not understand fully what I have just imparted. Hopefully, what I am imparting will open your mind to such concepts.

Human energy is real and does not lie. Those who are clairsentient know this. Trust what you sense or what people radiate over what people say or do. It will serve you well. I have learned to do this over the years since my awakening and continue to apply this daily. I am thankful I have awareness of this psychic sense and utilize it.

Energetic Chords, Filaments and Strands (ECFS)

The energetic impact of adultery can be better understand by introducing some other specific human energetic structures like chords, filaments and strands which exist in the human energetic field that connect people to each other. These are channels or connections in which psychic energy travels through. Energetic chords, the strongest and most powerful of bonds, automatically exist between blood relationships, i.e. mother/father to child.

Energetic chords result not only naturally from blood connections but can grow from  a matrimonial union and other committed relationships. Energetic chords are always formed from sexual intercourse. Therefore a married couple of over a sustained period of years will have strong energetic chords due to their extended sexual activity with each other, the nature of their marital vows and other factors.

Besides energetic chords, there are energetic filaments and strands connecting people. There is a variety of ECFS in different intensities, lengths, sizes, shapes and numbers depending on the nature of the relationships, vibrational level, karma level and other factors. ECFS can also form from strong feelings such as jealousy, deep hurt betrayal, hate and intense neediness.

Energy filaments and strands are not as strong energetic chords. They can be temporary and easier to remove. Filaments is a term I heard telepathically in February 2018.

ECFSs exist in other non-physical dimensional frequencies not readily detectable to most humans with their physical senses. Some with developed psychic senses may be able to view or sense this subtle energy. With practice, you may be able to develop this psychic sensitivity.

When you have ECFS with someone, you may be physically separate from them and the relationship may have ended, but you are still very much connected to them, energetically. Therefore they can influence you on subtle and not so subtle levels. Thus, this makes ECFS possible with someone who has transitioned to the afterlife.

These energetic flows between people are powerful influencers. A highly charged emotional event like adultery will flow through the energetic chords negatively affecting the partners and children involved because of its low vibration.

The Universal Laws 

Before getting into the specifics of the Universal Law of Karma which comes into play during adultery, let me explain in general what the Universal Laws are. Universal laws are spiritual, intelligent, neutral laws that the Universe is bound and defined by.  Immutable and all-powerful, they act as the cohesive and binding attraction of the Universe.  Universal laws are self-sustaining. They work on energetic principles that govern our moment to moment thoughts, including intentions, words spoken, actions, including interactions, reactions and responses. What you experience on this earth, as individuals, through families, communities, nations, and civilizations is determined by the Universal Laws.

It is important to be aware, align and harmonize with the Universal Laws in a conscious and intentional way to be in the universal flow and evolve into your expressed divineness, which is your soul purpose.  Some of these Universal laws include the Law of Attraction and the Law of Karma (the Law of Cause and Effect).

The Universe has existed and its inner workings are based on these laws. Being familiar and working within the Universal Laws will help you to manifest, create, prevent low vibrational karma from accruing and progress quickly through your spiritual evolution.

The Universal Law of Karma

For purposes of this post, I will focus on the Universal Law of Karma.

Karma is from the Sanskrit word karman meaning action, effect and fate. It also means word or deed. Karma is unlike fate or destiny, which are preordained.  It is a principle in Hinduism, Buddhism and other religions and philosophies.  Karma is a word I heard telepathically more frequently in 2017 and on.

Karma should not be seen as a reward or punishment, positive or negative, good or bad but as an energy which is powered by the Universal Law of Karma, which is the Universal Law of Cause and Effect. There is a reason for everything.  For every effect in your life, there is a cause or a series of specific identifiable causes.

Being an energy, as explained earlier in this post karma vibrates at frequencies ranging from low to neutral to high. The spiritual principle of cause and effect states that high vibrational intentions and deeds create high vibrational karma and low vibration intentions and deeds cause low vibrational karma.

As an energy, karma has a ripple effect on everything and everyone including your energetic anatomy, people, plants, pets and other animals. The physics Law of the Conservation of Energy states that energy cannot destroyed but it can change form.  Based on this, low vibrational karmic energy can carry over from lifetime to lifetime if it doesn’t change form or become transmuted. Therefore, karma plays a key factor in determining how many incarnations your soul experiences on Earth.

Low vibrational karma can be balanced, “corrected”, “healed” neutralized or transformed into high vibrational karma by consistently increasing the vibrational level and quality of your thoughts. The intensity of your karma can be measured by the intensity of your emotional state regarding yourself, people, places or events in your life. If you overreact, like becoming extremely annoyed, angry, blowing things out of proportion, become extremely hurt or hateful, the parties associated with this event has a higher potentiality of having a karmic association. These type of volatile emotions are karma creators and therefore have a karma consequence.

Because karma is an energy it carries over from lifetime to lifetime. I This applies to high vibrational karma and low vibrational karma. When overall, you have high vibrational karma, to use an analogy which I hope is understandable to most of you, you can say you have excess or a positive balance in your karma checkbook. You have “karma” credit to spend. In your karma balance sheet it will be a karmic asset when you incarnate again.

On the other hand, if overall you have low vibrational karma, you have a negative balance in your karma checkbook. You will be entering your next lifetime in a karma deficit. In turn you will have many soul lessons throughout your lifetime.  Using the balance sheet analogy, you will have a liability or a karmic debt to pay off when you come into your next lifetime. Or using the balance sheet analogy again you have a karma liability. You have your entire lifetime to balance your low vibrational karma in the learning paradigm of Earth if it is “negative.” I use these type of financial analogies because I have a Master’s in Accounting!

Becoming aware of the vibrational level of your thoughts, including the quality of your intentions, attitudes and beliefs, words and actions will keep your karma balanced. As you evolve to express more of your divineness and transcend your egoic tendencies, low vibrational karma will not be created, “making you a potent force.” (I directly channeled the preceding words at the time of this writing on 8/26/17).

Low vibrational energy associated with adultery like the energy of betrayal and deceitfulness has the potential to create low vibrational karma.  This principle that low vibrational energy has the potential to create low vibrational karma is a major premise in my upcoming 2nd book “Emotional Healing through Spiritual Awakening.”

Applying the Universal Law of Karma, low vibrational karma needs to be balanced or transmuted to a higher vibrational frequency. For example, if you created the karmic energy of adultery by committing such an act or if you have been involved in some way with it as in its coverup or enabling it, as part of your soul’s evolution you will need to balance this low vibrational energy.

If you do not balance your low vibrational karma, you will keep reincarnating on Earth until you do. This is what Buddhists refer to as the Wheel of Life, samsara, the cycle of rebirth and death.

Balancing of the Karma of Adultery

Balancing of adulterous energy can be accomplished when you are authentically contrite and have learned on the deepest level, your heart level, past the mind, into the inner recesses of your heart sanctum. If you committed adultery or been involved in it in some way, a verbal, heartfelt apology taking full responsibility for your actions to the parties involved will be a valuable step to alleviate the low vibrational karma. If this is not possible, other types of communication like email,  text or letter will serve as well. If the someone in the party is in-Spirit you can still communicate to them telepathically your authentic apologizes in prayer, meditation or inner stillness.

Please know even if you are sincere, the other parties involved may not accept your apology. And that is OK. It then becomes their karma. The Universe will honor your genuine efforts to make amends. Many people on the planet Earth today are here to learn unconditional forgiveness including those who have been cheated on.

Please read my earlier post on unconditional forgiveness to understand this topic better:
http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/unconditional-forgiveness-of-yourself-others/

Please read on…

The Sacredness of the Family Unit

In year nine of my spiritual awakening of 2009, I have become even more energetically acute. In 2018 a few months before I wrote this post,  I began to clearly feel the unique energy of the family unit. It became palpable to me. This happened naturally and without any effort on my part as I spiritually evolved.

This energetic sensingness has helped me to tune into the family unit. When I see parents with their children in public places like grocery stores and airports, I am very aware of the specific energy that connects them and flows back and forth between them. It is not just a cerebral knowingness but a sensingness. And because I can sense it, I can feel the depth of this family bond and its sacredness.

It is so beautiful and meaningful, the family unit, and the core desire of the parents to nurture, to protect and keep their children, their little chicklets safe and how much the children look to and need their mothers and fathers.  It is amazing to sense this. I am thankful I can feel it because it has changed me in profound ways.

Once you feel the sacredness of the family unit as I have, you will never engage in any activities to interfere and harm it like engaging in adultery. It is off-limits. Now with my increased sensitivity, the sacredness of the family unit has become crystal clear. May no man or woman break it asunder. Don’t mess with it! It is to be revered.

Emotional Affects of Adultery

The emotional effects of adultery to those who have been cheated on are deep. We are sentient beings and these sort of hurtful activities by our loved ones commits touches us on the heart level and to our core. It is serious, intense emotional energy that impacts all family members involved, consciously, unconsciously and energetically through ECFS.

To those who have been the victims of adultery, I am so sorry for your pain and suffering. So sorry. On a personal level and especially after my spiritual awakening, I cannot comprehend how someone can do this to anyone. I feel when I hurt someone intentionally, I hurt myself. It is just the same.

On a soul level you have agreed to have this experience for your soul’s growth and expansion. Some metaphysicians may say your soul wanted to experience what it felt like to be cheated on in this lifetime because in a prior lifetime, you were the adulterer. You may have broken up many families with your adulterous activities.  Having this experience in this lifetime where you are now in the receiving end of it  will hopefully give you more empathy and compassion to victims of adultery. If you are able to access your Akashic records, the eternal records of all you thought, said and did since your soul’s inception, you may be able to delve further into this detail.

Despite knowing your soul may have wanted to experience what it felt like to be cheated on for its expansion,  I know these type of experiences SUCK when you are the one going through it. As a teacher, I am reluctant to tell my students when they are experiencing hardships or conflicts with people in their life, perhaps they have wronged them in a previous lifetime and in this lifetime, this is the karma consequence to balance. Most people are not ready to hear this in the throes of their pain, suffering and feeling victimized. This is especially true if in this lifetime, you have not mistreated this person who has wronged you. It is hard to understand.

Now, that I aware of the inner workings and dynamics of human energy and being an empath and having the ability to feel people’s emotions and the sacredness of the family unit, I cringe inside and have a physical voluntary response because I can so acutely feel the detrimental energy of infidelity.

The Energy of Karma

The energy of betrayal and deceitfulness are low vibrational energies. Hence, there is the potential to create low vibrational karma. This is a major premise in my upcoming 2nd book “Emotional Healing through Spiritual Awakening.”

Balancing Low Vibrational Karma

Because of the Universal Law of Karma, low vibrational karma works on the principle that it needs to be balanced or transmuted to a higher vibrational frequency. For example, the karmic energy of adultery can be balanced when you are authentically contrite and have learned on the deepest level, the heart level, past the mind, into the inner recesses of your heart sanctum. If low vibrational karma is not balanced, you will keep reincarnating on Earth until it is. This is what Buddhists refer to as the Wheel of Life, samsara, the cycle of rebirth and death.

Please read on…

Symbolism of the Marriage Ceremony

I describe in the following additional extenuating factors which make the marriage contract a unique union, hence why adultery is low vibrational karma creator:

The marriage ceremony is a holy, sacred union, one of the few left we have in Western civilization and usually full of symbolism and pageantry. This is true for first marriages. Usually second marriages and following are done on smaller scales.

Marriage is supposed to be a spiritual union. It is usually a colossal energetic event marked by weeks of planning, preparation and intentionality. Often the ceremony takes place in a house of worship, facilitated by a person of faith. It is witnessed by a gathering, large usually, of family members, extended family members and other loved ones.

The wedding space is adorned with the fragrant blooms of flowers. The female members of the bridal party often carry flowers and the males wear corsages.  There is the symbolization of the white bridal gown for virginity and purity. There is a usually a specific verbalization of set “vows” by both parties which has been repeated by many couples over hundreds of years, which adds to the energetic impact of the event. The placing of the wedding ring, the infinite circle of eternal love, is another symbol of the further bonding on a specific finger of each partner.

Festivities and a feast usually follow the ceremony with family and friends celebrating the happy nuptials over food and drink. Gifts are given so that the newly weds can furnish their new household together.

How many such ceremonies do we have of such import in our society where we make such declarations like marriage vows publicly in front of mass witnesses of family and other loved ones? I wanted to highlight in detail the unique and special nature of the marriage day. It is unlike so many of our day-to-day activities.

Therefore, when you engage in breaking this sacred union through infidelity, there will be karmic consequences. It is based on energy, the Universal Law of Cause and Effect. Don’t kid yourself that it is not meaningful to the Universe or to your soul’s trajectory.

There is a solution. If you are unhappy with your union, end the union with integrity and finality and with the appropriate decree (divorce) so both sides understand and are on the same level BEFORE committing the infidelity. Then your path will be clear and free to carry forth. There will be a form of closure according to society’s rules. Until then it is subterfuge, cowardice and never is it sanctioned by the Universe as right.

You Can Always Evolve

To those who have engaged or been complicit in adulterous behaviors in the past and have seen the errancy of their ways and amended their intentions and behaviors to make corrections, I congratulate you. It is never too late. You always have this opportunity to shift within yourself. You will have learned a soul lesson for your soul’s expansion and growth for a Being of Love would never want to hurt someone on the backs of others especially those that are the most innocent, the children of those involved in these relationships or the partners.

Our mortal, egoic sides are all fallible. We all have committed transgressions in our life toward other people which we have regretted. That is part of the human journey. What is essential is what we do from it. It is vital you learn from it on a heart level and never engage in such activities again in this lifetime. If you have been cheated on, it is important you learn to forgive unconditionally those involved.  Else, you will reincarnate again and again to learn this along with all the other soul lessons you have not shored up.

When you heal yourself, you heal your family, your ancestors and the world. You pay it forward to your future lineage as well. Let us figure it out in this lifetime so we can move on ! Amen!

Do unto others, as you would have done onto you.

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Unconditional Forgiveness of Yourself & Others

Maya Angelou Quote

💚 “It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, to forgive. Forgive everybody.“~Maya Angelou

It’s a beautiful quote. Thank-you, Maya Angelou. I would just add to this quote “Forgive yourself, as well.”

I texted this quote to a friend as valuable spiritual counseling that we all can heed and be reminded of~forgiveness without exceptions or conditions.

You forgive for yourself because it is good for you and self-loving. The best way to move forward in your life is to forgive completely and unconditionally, to let go of things that are holding you back.

The Power of Symbols and Color

The green heart I added to this quote symbolizes the healing of the heart chakra in which the energy of forgiveness or nonforgiveness lies.  Since my spiritual awakening in 2009, I became a strong proponent of color healing and the power of symbols. As a Reiki master, I use the Reiki symbols daily to bless my food and people, and for power, clearing, protection and cleansing.  Using pictorial icons like the green heart is one way that I do my energy work. Symbols have been used since ancient history. They can be seen in churches and other ancient structures.  I know symbols may seem silly to some but to me, their use is serious energy and manifestation work. Because I believe in it, I give it additional power and amplification.

The Impetus for this Post

In the past few weeks in May and June of 2018, I have been receiving clairvoyant images of one of my friends who I sent this text to and one of her ex-friends. These images would just waft into my mind out of the blue, spontaneously and randomly, during the day. I had not been consciously thinking about their relationship at all or tuning into it.

Along with the images came a feeling that they needed to work out things in their relationship and ultimately forgive each other and themselves. They had a falling out, I would say, about three years ago or so and now are no longer are friends. Prior to that they were the closest of friends. When I was with them, I could sense their deep energetic bond and the connection they had.

These clairvoyant images and feelings in regard to my two friends initiated me to create a perpetual, substantial writing piece on unconditional forgiveness. Writing about that subject has been on my mind for a long time.  In creating a blog post, I can easily share the link to clients and people in need. There are so many people who can learn forgiveness.  A blog post is an efficient utilization of a modality to disperse this type of spiritual knowledge. It is my contribution to humanity as a light worker. I have also incorporated my own real life experiences with forgiveness to get certain points across.

(Note: For you writers out there, this piece took me about 25 hours to compose so far. Usually after I post it, I will psychically get more content to add over the ensuing days and so I spend another two to five hours on additions. I hope to make this post a basis for an upcoming workshop on forgiveness and a possible mini e-book. )

Recommendations for Psychic Development and Receptivity

These types of feelings I experienced with my two friends are a form of clairsentience, or the psychic sense of sensing, which we all have. Some people’s senses are more developed than others because they are more aware.

Because I have learned to quiet my mind, have fewer thoughts running around in there and I am listening to what is in my mind instead of creating more thoughts, I am aware of such things. I have developed an acuteness and an increased psychic receptivity since my awakening in 2009. I trained myself to do this.  You can as well if you so choose. I would recommend you to do the same practices to enhance the connection to your intuition and develop your psychic senses. These come into your mind in between the pauses of your thoughts. Therefore, the more space you have between your thoughts, the more you can hear your inner guidance.  I share what I learned and how I learned it to help you so you do not need to struggle and for you to learn to access your own gifts and resources.

Take Psychic Information You Receive Yourself Seriously But Check Your Ego

When I receive such psychic information directly, I have learned to take it seriously. I do not ignore the signs.  These are coming to me for a purpose and are intentional.  And because I was receiving such “psychic downloads” out of the blue, I knew it was not my ego creating them in some way. In the past, I used to tell myself to mind my own business but now, I know it is not that. I have learned to recognize authentic psychic information from my egoic thoughts. It took some time to do this but now I get it. I have been called or enlisted to help in some way those people who I am receiving psychic information on. But please if you receive information psychically,  do a double check that your ego is not creating these thoughts.

Why was I Receiving these Psychic Images and Feelings?

In the latter part of 2017 and 2018 I realized part of my soul contract for this current human incarnation was to help, support, teach and learn from specific soul tribe members.  In 2018 some of these soul tribe members have been put as my “high priority.” These two ladies that I refer to in the beginning of this post are part of my soul tribe.

I have had increased occurrences of being “called” to help specific soul tribe members in 2018. It has been amped up for me, I feel because this is an 11 numerological year (2+0+1+8=11) and I am an “11” Life Path number of intuition, psychic receptivity and the seeker of spirituality.

What is a Soul Tribe?

I borrowed this definition of soul tribe from my upcoming e-book “Emotional Healing through Spiritual Awakening” to help you understand the concept of a soul tribe:

“Soul Tribe (Soul Collective, Soul Group) – A group of souls who tend to incarnate together over several lifetimes to assist in each other’s spiritual evolution lessons.  Everyone has a group of souls they are spiritually connected to and energetically a part of. It includes all members of the group on both sides of the Veil. Your spirit guides and other non-visible guides are part of your soul tribe. One soul group may work with guides from other soul groups to facilitate learning.

During Earthly incarnations, your soul tribe may or may not have blood ties with you. Members are your immediate and extended family members, significant life partners, friends and close associates, including co-workers, etc… There can be hundreds of people in your tribe over your life time. There are discrepancies in the metaphysical and spiritual world as to how many members may be in your inner circle, outer circle and in total.

People from your soul group may come into your lives at seemingly random times, but in fact these critical meetings were preordained. The Law of Attraction works in every aspect of your life including in bringing your soul tribe members to you through each other’s vibrational level.

You may or may not get along with your soul tribe members. Some teachings define a soul tribe as people who get you and whom you can resonate with similar values and beliefs.  I feel this is not accurate. It goes much deeper than that. Soul tribe relationships can be volatile and antagonistic as part of one’s evolution. Do not think that every one of them is going to be your closest confidante and buddy. Soul tribe members are not your soul mates, though infrequently a few of them may be.  In fact, some of them will be in your most emotionally difficult relationships to bring you your soul lessons.

There may not be exact time overlap as to when you and your members incarnate. Some may be in your life for only a short time, six months, and others for years. Some may physically pass before you do.

There is a mutual energy exchange in a soul tribe. This constant interchange and reversing of roles over lifetimes between the same set of people creates an intense experience which helps you and the other members of your soul tribe to learn life lessons and to balance karma. Your soul tribe has an impact on your state of evolution. It can be said you rise and fall together.

This is why you have a vested interest in helping your soul tribe evolve and to be of service in this way. Whether you are conscious of it or not, you are meant to help each other with your soul lessons by being both a teacher, either through your demonstrations and/or words, and a student in your interactions with each other.

Those in a soul tribe experience soul group karma. “Group karma is created when a soul collective, united by energetic flow (ionization flow) and binds, has agreed to experience key aspects of their soul expression as a unit, rather than as individuals.  Groups are predetermined.”  ~Archangel Uriel, channeled by Katibe Simmone

Differentiations and a hierarchy of importance can be made within the tribe using relationship closeness. The inner circle or primary level or your soul tribe consists of long-term sustained human relationships, including blood relationships, and the outer circle being relationships of a transitory nature.”

Now that you have learned what initiated this post, back to the important topic of this post, forgiveness, “an essential element for ascension” (I channeled the preceding term in quotes on 7/3/18):

What is Forgiveness?

According to Wikipedia: “Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, lets go of negative emotions such as vengefulness, forswears recompense from or punishment of the offender, however legally or morally justified it might be, and with an increased ability to wish the offender well.

Forgiveness is a foundational principal in some religions. In Hinduism forgiveness is considered one of the six cardinal virtues. As an eternal, divine being in human form, to forgive is your essence.  It is your dominating ego that prevents you from that.

Many times your beliefs on forgiveness are picked up from your family’s attitudes on the subject and how they demonstrated it or not and from the culture you were raised in. However, when you become an adult, you can learn to unconditionally forgive if you do not know how to. This blog post is a resource to help you in this.

Who have you not forgiven in your life?

Look back on your life from childhood to present. Who have you not forgiven in your life? They can be the following, either living or in spirit, and their transgressions can range in duration and intensity:

  1. those that have abused you mentally, physically, sexually or in other ways
  2. those that have criticized and judged  you
  3. those that have disappointed you
  4. those that were dishonest to you in some way, as in betraying, cheating, lying, scamming you, stealing from you, etc…
  5. those that have insulted and slandered you
  6. those that have not been loyal to you through gossiping about you or other ways
  7. those that who have been mean to you
  8. those who abandoned or neglected you
  9. those who have not loved you in the way you expected
  10. those who you resent or are jealous of
  11. those that did not support you
  12. those that used and manipulated you in some way
  13. those that chose others over you
  14. and those that wronged you in any other way

Forgive Yourself Because You Love Yourself

I couldn’t complete this post without adding this essential part of self-forgiveness is a form of self love. This needed to be at the beginning of this post. So many of you, if you are not narcissist egotists, are tough on yourself. You are you worst judge and harsh inner critic. You may not have not forgiven yourself for things you have said or done or things you didn’t say or do in the past. These can be things from years gone by~10, 15, 25 , 35 years~ from your childhood or teenage years.

I have held grievances with some family members for over 3o years. That is too long and just plain ridiculous! Isn’t that way to long? I am thankful I have released these completely and in a healthy way. It did take some effort on my part and time. It was a peeling of layers to get to the core of my issues.

Self talk are the thoughts running in your mind. Your self talk can be a reflection of the derogatory voices of your parents, caregivers, siblings, other loved ones or teachers you are hearing, replaying again and again in your mind on an incessant loop. These can be the words you have absorbed consciously and subliminally from your caretakers and other authority figures.

I borrowed this definition of self-talk from my upcoming book “Emotional Awakening Through Spiritual Awakening”:

“Self-Talk – The ongoing often repetitive thoughts in your mind throughout the day. Many times, this runs incessantly in the back of your mind uncontrolled unless you have learned to decrease, pause or still your thoughts through practices of meditation, self-awareness and listening to your thoughts. Your self-talk is a form of conditioning and self-programming. Your self-talk is either coming from your ego of low vibration or your divine aspect of high vibration.

When your self-talk is from the ego, which for many of you it is, it is referred to as the “monkey mind” in Buddhism. It can be self-sabotaging, is self-judgmental, including unkind to yourself, and critical. Therefore, egoic self-talk does not serve you well. It hinders as well as blocks your emotional healing, thwarting your spiritual evolution.

Everyone’s soul contract includes developing selftalk emanating from your divine essence, which is based on unconditional self-love.  Self-talk of this vibration is constructive and empowers you. It diminishes your need to even forgive and when it does arise, it promotes easy forgiveness. Emotional distress in your life decreases in frequency and when it does occur, you are able to release and with quicker emotional resiliency. 

Becoming aware of your self-talk and shifting it will help you to create a divine based thought system in accordance with your soul contract.”

Learn to listen to your self-talk.  Instead of creating your thoughts, just listen. It is revelatory.

What you are hearing inside of your mind?

My Own Experiences with Unloving Self-Talk

I have beaten myself up many, many times over the years. As I look back now, I cannot believe how mean and unloving I was to myself. In fact, I would say, I was cruel to myself.  I was hard on myself on issues I just didn’t know about in my teenage years, over thirty years ago!

I have beat myself up because I didn’t do things or was not compassionate or sensitive enough when I was a child or teenager.  I felt guilty that I didn’t help my mother enough and was not the good older sister for my younger sister when my father was ill over a period of three years when I was in high school. I felt guilty that I didn’t recognize that my younger brother may have needed some support and friendship during that time as well.  I was clueless at the time.

It was only about two years ago, I realized I was still holding this emotional low vibrational junk of guilt, regret and shame. Then I cut myself a break by telling myself  “I simply did not know any better at those younger ages due to my emotional immaturity.” I just didn’t have the emotional skills and was incapable at that young age to extend that to them. I realized I was living in the past. The past was gone. What was done, was done. I can only change the present and my future through changing my thoughts so that is what I did. And I am so glad I did!

In the last months of 2017 and into 2018, I have thankfully stopped this self-abusive pattern of behavior.  I am much more aware of my self-talk and shifted it to one, more self-compassionate in nature.

Learn and Do Not Beat Yourself Up

I now look back at my life, not with guilt, regret, shame or unforgiveness of what I did or didn’t do or say as I had for thirty or so years of my life but through the perceptual view of what I learned from these valuable life situations. I learned valuable teachings about myself and other people. I am so thankful for this. All those situations and interactions, uncomfortable and difficult as they were at the time, helped me to get to this point. It is so important for us to learn and apply those learning from our past experiences. When you know better, do better.  This is how we evolve and grow.

Now, I can say, I truly love myself.

Receiving Telepathic Affirmations

Starting in 2017 before bed, I would repeat positive affirmations as a nightly ritual. I had my own short list of what I thought I needed to say. But often this changed because I would receive, telepathically from beyond, other affirmations to say to myself.  I don’t know who the sender was. Maybe it was my Higher Self or my Angels. They didn’t identify themselves. It was high vibrational information so I knew it wasn’t coming from a dark entity.*

The major telepathic affirmations I received  to repeat to myself in 2017 and 2018 were “I love myself” and “I believe in myself.” The one about self-love has popped into my mind out of the blue many a time. That’s how I knew I needed to love myself more.

Looking back, I don’t think in the past I even loved myself! And you know what? Even more surprising is that I didn’t know I didn’t love myself. That’s how out of touch I was and not self-aware. I am deeply thankful I have learned and applied self-love. That one is a doosey and vital. Thank-you, Universe, for guiding me to that!

Because I have learned to love myself after many years of life, a lot of statements or behaviors of others do not trigger me like they would have in the past that would require forgiveness. Now, I have become emotionally neutralized and less reactive.  The instances of hearing and observing what is projected at me but not taking it to heart are increasing. My sense of self-esteem has stabilized and strengthened since I love myself. I have become more centered and less reactive.

I have made this commitment to myself: No one is going to dullen my sparkle! Not anymore! No longer will I allow that! No longer will I allow others to pull my strings!  I make my happiness and inner peace my highest priorities. Amen!

This is the best emotional state to be in. I love it! I wonder how I lived before, without that. I was a lamb, ignorant and hooded and miserable at times when I didn’t need to be.

(*Side note: Since my awakening in 2009 I only received one statement from a dark entity who told me telepathically he didn’t want to talk to me in a rough, snarling voice. That was in my first year of my awakening when I was a newbie and didn’t know any better.)

Taking Responsibility for Your Thoughts

Taking responsibility for your thoughts is a form of self-love. When your ego blames others for your misery, you are giving away your power to them.  When you make others responsible for your happiness, you disempower yourself. As one saying goes “You put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.”

Emotionally reacting to a situation IS NOT responding which usually requires a pause and moderation. The people you are with don’t force you to react. Your ego does that. You have a choice in how to respond to everything in your life. Own that.

Your Humanity

Please know, you are only human and not a robot and your egoic feelings will arise from time to tome which feed the circumstances that need forgiveness. Please do not deny, ignore or repress your emotions. In these instances, do not be hard on yourself and beat yourself up about it. Learn from it. Do your best and work through it. It is important to show yourself the divine attributes of self-love, compassion and gentleness.

I like to tell myself I will do better next time when I have fallen off the spiritual cart and find myself starting to harbor a grievance and becoming unforgiving. Sometimes, I do better and sometimes I don’t! However, overall, the quality of my life has improved dramatically when I learned to acknowledge and then heal my egoic thoughts associated with nonforgiveness. It is part of every one’s evolution to learn to master this.

As a result of all of these encounters I had in my life which required me to forgive, I began to know myself more intimately.  I am ecstatic about that and this self-knowledge is invaluable. I am so inspired by what I learned, I wanted to share it with everyone who is open and willing to listen; hence, this post and many of my other writings were born.

Your Humanity

Please know, you are only human and not a robot. Your feelings will arise which feed the circumstances that need forgiveness. Please do not deny, ignore or repress these emotions. Don’t pretend you don’t have them, when you do. Don’t pretend your life is hunky dory, when it is not.

Your patterns surrounding forgiveness will arise from time to time. In these instances, do not be hard on yourself and beat yourself up about it. Learn from it. Do your best and work through it. It is important to show yourself the divine attributes of self-love, compassion and gentleness.

To quote Buddha~”If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.”

I like to tell myself I will do better next time when I have fallen off the spiritual cart and find myself starting to harbor a grievance and become unforgiving and resentful. Sometimes, I do better and sometimes I don’t! However, overall, the quality of my life has improved dramatically when I learned to acknowledge and then heal my egoic thoughts associated with not forgiving others. It is part of every one’s evolution to learn to master this.

As a result of all of these encounters in my life which required my forgiveness, I began to know myself more intimately.  I am ecstatic about that and it is invaluable. I am so inspired by this, I wanted to share it with everyone who is open and willing to listen and read; hence, this post and many of my other writings were born.

Acknowledge & Process Your Feelings

Forgiveness comes after acknowledging and processing all of your feelings surrounding the situation and toward those parties involved. These can include feelings such as the following:

  • Abandonment
  • Anger
  • Betrayal
  • Bitterness
  • Frustration
  • Hurt
  • Jealousy
  • Neglect
  • Regret
  • Sadness
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self-pity
  • Shame
  • Trauma
  • Unfairness
  • Unworthiness
  • Vengefulness
  • Victimization

Reread the above list. These feelings are not fun! They are certainly not ones of bliss, happiness or peace.

What good does it do for you to hold onto feelings of unforgiveness of yourself or others if they are just making your miserable and taking you away from your joy that you are entitled to and deserving of?

These low vibrational feelings are feelings generated by your ego, not your Divine Self, which is only pure unconditional love for yourself and others. Unconditional forgiveness brings you back home to your Divine Nature, your True Nature.

So forgive whoever is to blame for your past, big or small, including yourself. Then, move forward by taking responsibility for your thoughts in the present. When you shift in the present, it automatically changes your future. I created a step by step process for forgiveness which I share later in this post if you need some help. 

Your Perceptual Lens

There are facts and objective data and then there are your perceptions. There is a difference. Know your perceptions about these people who you have not forgiven, including yourself and the situations involving them are just that, your perceptions coming through the filter of your ego, belief systems and unhealed emotional wounds that you have been carrying from childhood to now. Your perceptions and memories may not necessarily be accurate, correct or objective. They can be regurgitation and a compilation of key people from your childhood on like your parents and siblings.

Another person who has a different lens of viewing the world may view the same situation entirely differently. Viewing a situation from the other party’s perspective is one of the steps in my forgiveness technique that I share in this post. Seeing the same situation in a different light can create a beneficial shift for you toward forgiveness.

Forgiveness Techniques

My Perspective on A Course in Miracles

I have studied A Course in Miracles (ACIM). Like many bodies of philosophical, esoteric and religious studies, there are aspects of it, one may disagree with while appreciating other aspects.  ACIM has many wonderful teachings but one of my criticisms of this thought system is that it doesn’t address the necessity of processing all the human emotions surrounding forgiveness one may have and the import of getting to the source level of each interaction that requires forgiveness.

ACIM espouses in general just to be loving to forgive. Indeed, the teaching of love is beautiful and at the very core of forgiveness.  But I found “Be love and forgive” a blanket, general phrase that did not serve me in the best way and did not help me to forgive. It did not touch on the deeper levels of what I was feeling inside. It seemed to gloss over some very valuable, underlying self-delving and self-excavation work that we all need to know to understand ourselves and how we came to have the attitudes and belief systems that we do. I believe when we do this inner work, we can understand others better as well, creating more compassion for our fellow brothers and sisters.

I know there are many students of ACIM that would disagree with me on this and that is fine. People resonate to different teachings, which is why there are so many different paths though most of them all have the same common goal, to be Love.

For me, personally, I need a more detailed approach to help me shift into forgiveness in addition to the mantra “Be loving and forgive.” I realized understanding myself through my reactions of nonforgiveness is a crucial step me to heal emotionally disruptive thought patterns.

A Forgiveness Technique

Hence, I compiled the following technique, which has been a tremendous aid for me to release, to help you shift into forgiveness and create some self-introspection which is absolutely crucial to knowing ourselves, our thought patterns, our intentions and our belief systems. It has many steps. In the beginning I would suggest you go through all the steps to become familiar with them and because they can reveal so much about your inner workings. As you become more adept with practice, you may need to only apply a few of the steps.

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Preparing yourself and your space:

  • Make sure you are in a safe, quiet space with ample time at least twenty minutes and without interruption.
  • Be in relaxed, balanced state of mind. If the situation requiring forgiveness just came up, you may need to calm down before doing this exercise. When you are emotionally stabilized, this exercise will be more fruitful.
  • Take a few deep, cleansing breaths.
  • Have your journal, computer or smart phone ready to record your thoughts and responses to below.
  • To amplify your intention for help, light a candle and let it burn throughout this exercise. You can also use incense and lay your crystals close to you.
  • Play soft, serene music in the background.

(1) Contemplate your life and extract those situations involving specific people around which you are holding feelings of non-forgiveness. To start off, select one which has the most emotional charge for you to focus on during this exercise. It can be one that is recent or one from your past. It can involve those that are living or in spirit.

(2) Acknowledge what you are feeling in regard to the forgiveness situation and label each egoic emotion. Write these in your journal, on your computer or the memo function of your smart phone. The act of writing helps you to gain clarity, become more focused and demonstrates to the Universe your commitment to want to help yourself.

It is crucial to acknowledge the specific individual feelings which arise within you.  Use the list of forgiveness emotions I provided in this post or go to a thesaurus to define them. This act of honing and categorizing the type of emotions you are feeling will help to stabilize you by getting you to step outside of your volatility to understand your emotions.

It may feel like you have a few different emotions that are bundled up together. Parse them out. Or like a tangled skein of yarn, start to unravel it.

Also, during this time remember to stay open. Continue to tune in, sense and listen to your thoughts in case the Universe is sending you more information about what you are feeling.

It is important to be clear with what feelings have surfaced. In doing so, you will learn more about yourself and become familiar with what emotional patterns you have that caused your triggers and continue to enable it.  This may reveal important patterns in your life in how you consistently react.

(3) When you have felt, you have fully labeled all of your emotions in regard to this situation, put all of your expectations aside. Command your ego to step aside so you can fully receive the high level guidance.

(4) Now, it is time to ask for help through divine guidance. In prayer, inner stillness or meditation with heartfelt intention, telepathically or out loud, ask for help from the Universe, your Higher Self, Source (or whatever high level intelligence you believe in), your Angels, your Guides of Light and Love and/or Master Teacher Guides. Use these high level free resources available to you 24/7. Why struggle on your own? There is no need to do it alone when you are never alone.

Request they continue to guide you.  Express to them you want to receive, for your highest good and the highest good of all concerned, guidance on this specific forgiveness issue and how to release your feelings around it completely, unconditionally and expeditiously.

Thank them in advance for their wisdom which they will impart to you.

(5) Pause, stay open and receptive. Use all of your senses to discern what you are feeling, seeing and receiving.

(6) Through introspection, attempt go back to the first time you developed this emotional reactiveness which caused you to hold a grievance. Notice if it is a pattern. Look back at your recent life, the past week, the past month, the past year and then further back into your past life as needed. Document how often and when these same emotions rose in your life. You may find it is always with a specific person in your life, a family member, a friend or a co-worker or a certain set of circumstances. If it was with the same individual, it would be a sign of a karmic relationship that needs to be healed. Record their names. If it is around a recurring set of events, it is a specific soul attribute you are to garner, i.e. patience, nonjudgment, self love, etc…

Many of the low vibration feelings you have as an adult have a lot to do with how your parents or major caretakers interacted with each other, how you feel they treated you and how they treated others.  Many belief systems surrounding forgiveness, money, work ethic, work/family balance, how to treat men, how to treat women, what a man’s responsibility is verses a woman’s, etc… have been passed down from generation to generation and associated with ancestral and cultural attitudes.

It may have been in childhood when someone said something to you one time or treated you in a way you felt was hurtful that you first began to be unforgiving. You may come to realize you have been carrying the same emotional wound since childhood and it has continued to surface and be triggered throughout your life in different environments and with different people.

The reasons why this wound was not healed can be many. It may be because you were unaware of it but it has been working on autopilot in the back of your mind.  Or you just didn’t stop to think you could change your feelings to help yourself. Or being busy with your life, you denied, ignored  or accepted it.

(7) Introspect about other family members especially your parents or significant people in your early life and later who may have had exhibited similar emotions around forgiveness.  Did you pick up some of your qualities from them? When you are born, you are like a sponge, absorbing and assimilating so quickly to adapt to the human environment.

Inherently, children want to please their parents and caregivers and yearn for their approval and validation. Perhaps there were some around you who were very critical and rarely praised you. This could have resulted in you becoming a perfectionist and over demanding on others and not forgiving yourself. Or it can explain why you have always felt you were never good enough. These types of revelations can be liberating in realizing you have taken on your loved one’s emotional baggage as your own. It can also explain why it has been so difficult to for you to release it over the years.

Steps (6) and (7 ) will help you to understand the derivation of your emotional patterns  in regard to forgiveness and the formations of its associated emotional triggers. These epiphanies in itself may create a tremendous healing release when you learn that.

(8) Ask yourself the following questions:

– Are your feelings of unforgiveness coming from your unhealed emotional wounds from the past and your emotional triggers? This is an important revelation to give you insight into the source of your feelings for healing.

– Is the surge of these unforgiveness feelings a pattern in your life? Look for commonalities in your past in which you felt the same way. Identify the settings and people you were with to understand your triggers.

– Is the unforgiveness you’re feeling irrational and appropriate in intensity to the stimulus?

Are you sweating the small stuff?

Are you exhibiting myopic, narrow minded perceptions?

– Are you are taking it too personally? This requires you to step back and away from your feelings. It requires you to have a level of objectivity. This is why it is important to be in a balanced state in doing this exercise. If you are in the throes of your egoic low vibrational feelings, you will not be able to tell if you are taking it too personally. This is not to invalidate your feelings but to give them their proper scope.

(9) Reframe the situation by seeing it from the following, more empowering point of view:

– See it with gratitude for its positive aspects. See the brighter side of the situation.  There is ALWAYS something to be grateful for if you have the vision to see it.

What is there to be grateful for in this situation?

The following well-known adages may apply here and provide you with some comfort during these trying situations:

“When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.”

“Every cloud has a silver lining.”

“When one door closes, another opens.”

“All is in Universal Order and Diving Timing.”

“If it is meant to be, it will be.”

“Everything happens for a reason.”

“You are only given what you can handle.”

You can repeat these as mantras to help you but do it authentically and in a heartfelt fashion. Do not repeat these superficially and by rote, i.e. as platitudes. Don’t jump over puddles here. Repeat these mantras over the ensuing days.

(10) See this forgiveness issue as your soul lesson. The Universal Law of Attraction magnetized this specific event into your energetic field for a purpose. There is something important for all parties involved to learn as part of their souls’ growth. The essential steps of  acknowledging what you are feeling and getting through the emotional charge you are feeling in these situation has been done in the earlier steps. Now, you will move onto what you need to develop within yourself or learn about others through this experience.

What unhealed emotional wounds did it uncover that you have been suppressing, repressing, ignoring or denying that surfaced for you to address?

Dig deep to understand yourself and why you are choosing to let this person/situation bother you and disturb your peace.

What divine traits does the Universe want you to gain or deepen from this issue in which you haven’t forgiven?

Be proactive to learn so you will not have to experience this soul lesson again.

Divination tools such as Oracle and Tarot cards,  journaling, meditation, inner stillness, prayer and notice synchronicities in your life in the days following will guide you into gleaming important information from your forgiveness situation if you are unsure.

Ask yourself the following questions to determine what it is you are to learn:

  • Are you to learn to love yourself?
  • Are you to learn to let others be their authentic selves?
  • Are you to learn to communicate and express yourself better and in a more timely manner?
  • Are you to learn to become less controlling?
  • Are you to learn to become more independent and self-referring?
  • Are you to learn to believe in yourself?
  • Are you to learn to become more generous?
  • Are you to learn to become less judgmental and accepting of others who are different than you and have different beliefs and values?
  • Are you to learn to stop measuring other people by your yardstick?
  • Are you to learn to become less needy on others?
  • Are you to learn patience?
  • Are you to learn to develop your inner strength?
  • Are you to learn to take responsibility?
  • Are you to learn to improve your self confidence?
  • Are you to learn how not to be?
  • Are you to learn about human behavior and shadow aspects, how their ego and insecurities can negatively impact them?
  • Are you to learn the difference and disconnect between a person’s energetic projection and what they say? I have learned that energy does not lie. So when someone says something but the energy they radiate is different, I go with their energy.

(11) Shift your perspective of the situation to the other party’s point of view. As best as you can, put yourself in their shoes and see the situation through their eyes.

Can you understand why they reacted like they did and where they were coming from?

Was it due to their own dysfunctional upbringing, culture or life experiences? Is their astrological sign exerting an influence? Not that this is an excuse for their behavior but it does give you context.

Are they reacting to something you said or something you said to them earlier, inadvertently or consciously? That is the Law of Cause and Effect. You may have contributed in some way to the situation.

Are you meeting them where they are at and not where you at? Some people have lower emotional intelligence and IQ. They simply are incapable of comprehending certain things yet. That does not mean you should stop your attempts to communicate to them lovingly to help them but it needs to be done at their levels.

Record your thoughts and observations.

This step helps to create empathy, compassion and sensitivity to your fellow brethren. It also helps you to take responsibility for how you may have contributed to the situation.  These are very valuable life skills to help you with all of your ongoing and future relationships.

So many times, your ego wants to be selfish and for it to be all about you, your hurts, your woes and lamentations without any concern for the other person involved. This is one-sided, lopsidedness.

(12) Now, shift your perspective of the situation to that of a neutral observer’s, to one who is not involved and does not have an interest in the situation. See the situation through a different lens with more rationality and fairness, instead of from your wounded heart. Think of yourself as a news reporter who is reporting on only the facts of the situation without any emotionality.  Record this.

(13) Then shift your perspective to that of a Divine Being’s or the Universe’s. How would a high-level, intelligent, loving consciousness or a Light Being, such as your Angels, Jesus or the Dalai Lama see this situation?

Use your imagination if you must to prime your creative juices if you have trouble with this one.

Record your thoughts and observations.

(14) Notice the differences from the perspective of your ego, that of the party involved, that of a neutral observer’s to and that of a Light Being’s.

These steps helps to give you a broader perspective of the situation with increased clarity as to the reality of what transpired.

(15) The following was an addition I received on 8/20/17 which I felt guided to insert on behalf of the Light Beings:

View the situation from a karmic perspective and ask yourself the following questions:

Are your egoic feelings going to create low vibrational karma?

The answer is always yes unless you unconditional forgive them. If you are judging them harshly, holding bitterness and anger toward them and all these other emotions,  you will be creating low vibrational karma. The extent of the karma will be determinant on the intensity of the emotion your are feeling and its duration, hours, day, months, years or until you transition into the afterlife.

Based on this, are you ready to receive the karma ramifications of balancing the low vibrational karma in this lifetime or in another reincarnation, if you do not forgive in this lifetime?

For me, this particular step has allowed me to forgive people so much more quickly. I want to prevent the low vibrational karma boomerang in this lifetime or next.  I am very thankful I have applied this in my life by asking myself if I want to carry that karma baggage. My answer is always a resounding “No!”.

(16) Look at the bigger picture of the specific situation. Note the person’s strengths and overall track record. Ask yourself the following and record your answers:

  • Is this one situation enough to be a deal breaker or is it an extenuating circumstance?
  • Is it a pattern of behavior for this person to act in this way in which you then choose to feel upset or hurt by?
  • Is if fair to hold this against them?

(17) Note if you somehow you created or inflamed the situation. Take responsibility for your words, actions, sound tones, sound volume and facial expressions. It is not only what you say, it is how you say it.  Be honest with yourself.

It is difficult for people to admit their flaws due to their egos. Many have blind spots in this regard. But by recognizing your shadows and weaknesses, you can transform them into light and strengths. Feedback from those we trust and whose opinions we value can provide honesty in how we are carrying ourselves in the world. You can ask others who observed the situation for feedback if you have blind spots.

Have your ego step aside. Ask yourself the following questions. Answer honestly. Record your answers.

  • Did you say something to someone in such a way that the person you were with reacted to it?
  • Was your tone accusatory?
  • Was your tone angry, condescending, frustrated or impatient?
  • Did your roll your eyes at them?
  • How did you contribute to the situation?

All of the above can further incite and escalate situations.

(18) The unconditional forgiveness check: Tune into yourself after completing the preceding steps and evaluate your state of mind and the feelings in your heart space.

Ask yourself the following questions and record your answers:

  • How does your mind and heart feel?
  • Can you genuinely send those involved love and light and wish them well on your life journey?
  • Do you still feel an emotional charge or a heaviness in your heart whenever you think of the situation and people involved?

If you still feel perturbed or are holding any low vibrational egoic feelings, you have not completely energetically cleared yourself. That is okay! Humans are complex. You may need to repeat the preceding steps of this exercise again in the days following. I recommend you do this in a timely manner for your own sake and don’t put it to the side.

You will know when you have emotionally healed yourself in regard to this situation when you can send yourself and others involved in the situation love and light, heartfully and freely.

(19) As emotional maintenance: On an ongoing basis, daily or weekly, scan your mind and heart to see if any instances arose in your life which require you to forgive others or yourself.  You can do this at the end of every evening.  Please do it with gentleness for yourself and others.

You can identify your forgiveness issues because you will not feel at peace within yourself and emotionally disturbed and unbalanced.  Your body will cue you in through physical cues.

This scanning technique will help prevent forgiveness incidences from sneaking in and taking over your well-being without your self-awareness. It will nip them in the bud by addressing them almost as soon as they occur which is so important for your energetic and long term physical health.

(20) A practice of regular quality meditation, daily preferably, and mindfulness can help you tune into your inner self and its inner workings. It can help illuminate you as to what and who you need to heal through forgiveness.

The Importance of  Timely, Loving Communication

I feel that the basis for many people in situations that require forgiveness is lack of proper communication. Many of us do not express in a timely manner to others what we desire, what we need  or how we are feeling in a high vibrational manner. We expect others to read our minds and for people, including our loved ones, to just “know” what it is we need.  We expect them to be sensitive to us.  This is especially true of the expectations we hold about those closest to us, like our parents, our spouses and children. Then when we don’t receive what we expect from them, the stuff has the potential to fester and boil inside of us, waiting to erupt at a future time.

The Importance of Detachment from Outcome

Be prepared though if you honestly, compassionately and tactfully communicate to someone, they may not necessarily receive it in the way you hoped.  Learn to detach from this expectation of the outcome. If you are expecting an apology from them, you may not get one. Or it may come much later in time.  Even if you explain lovingly how you are feeling, they may still not see it your way.  The human ego is very strong and persuasive, blocking people from receiving and seeing the truth about themselves.

Can you still be friends or partners with them?

Is this a deal breaker?

Do you need to eliminate or minimize your interactions with them?

Connect to your intuition to help guide you through this.

My Personal Experience with Communication

I had a situation about two years ago in 2016 with another soul tribe member directly associated with communication. A girlfriend blew up on me out of the blue over the phone when I was attempting to gather some friends together for an evening outing. Her tone was very angry and condescending. Because I am sensitive to energy and sound, I immediately picked up on it. I am a Cancer water sign and a channeler of Light Beings so I am sensitive to human energy as well as other types of energy.

To give you some clarifying background: I was out of the state for about a month and hadn’t seen this friend and communicated very little to her when I was away. Needless to say,  I was confused as to where her emotion was coming from.  I was shocked to be at the receiving end of her outburst. I had no idea what it was about. It took me off guard. During the interaction, I scanned my mind quickly to come up with an answer to her behavior but to no avail.

Immediately after my friend’s outburst,  I did some coaching with her by text. She revealed to me what it was about.  About five weeks prior, I had forgotten to acknowledge her birthday on the day it occurred. I sent her an email the morning of but not with birthday wishes.  I did send her belated wishes on Facebook a day later, which I reminded her of during our texting, but that didn’t cut the mustard with her.

I let my friend know she could have just texted, emailed or called me at the time to express her hurt about me forgetting her birthday. Instead, she let it build and build until she exploded a few weeks later. She admitted she needed to learn to better communicate so she doesn’t erupt and is going to be working on it. I know the Universe engaged me to help her, a fellow soul tribe member, during this interaction for her to learn this valuable lesson. It just came with an “ouch factor” on my end of it. That’s okay. It happened that way for a reason.

Acknowledgement of her birthday was a symbol for her of friendship.  I explained to her where I was coming from.  I came from a family where birthdays were not as significant. I did not even remember my own nieces’ or nephews’ birthdays some years or recognized them belatedly.  I still do not remember the day my own father passed!  May he rest in peace.  I feel my family members just accepted this aspect of me, though it could have been begrudgingly.

All of those dates of birthdays, anniversaries, days loved ones passed away related to immediate family members, extended family members, in-laws and friends is just too much information to have in my brain. I made the conscious decision not to make remembering these a priority. I only remember my husband’s, daughter’s, siblings’ and mother’s birthdays. That’s it.

And then this situation happened with my friend venting on me. In my over fifty years of life, I have never had someone call me out on forgetting an important date. Some may have been thinking of it inside but never expressed it to me.  There is always a first time for everything!

I told my friend my forgetfulness in regard to her birthday wasn’t personal. That was just the way I have been rolling all these years. I am not saying it is right. I am so glad I had the wherewithal and the balance to explain where I was coming from to help her to understand me instead of just reacting back to her and becoming confrontational, which is what my ego wanted to do.

It was not the easiest communication for me to have in the moment that it happened but I demonstrated emotional restraint with her. After that, I knew I had achieved a certain level of emotional mastery.  I had passed a major soul test!

In fact to further substantiate my views on birthdays, when I used to buy my mother birthday cards, my mother would turn it over, look at the back of the card and say “You paid $1.99 for this piece of paper? You could have bought me a package of gum!” I heard that many a time! Now, I laugh about what my mother said. So that was the family culture I grew up with in regards to birthdays and what status it was given!

My friend and I obviously had a different value system and expectations in regards to birthdays and their significance. No one is right or wrong but there are many spiritual teachings that espouse to release from expectations. The more expectations you carry of others, the higher chance you have of being disappointed, again and again and again. That is why learning to detach from expectation is absolutely crucial for your well-being. To be self-referring and give yourself what you expect from others is a major soul lesson. It was one I learned after many personal incidences following my spiritual awakening. I am happy to say I have come a long way and now can detach from expectation more easily.

Believe me, it was not easy for me to keep my balance when my friend was lashing out on my verbally, including energetically. I felt so hurt that she came at me like that, her friend, just because I had forgotten her birthday the day of, when overall, I felt I have only been kind to her and treated her like a friend in the past. This is how I processed it.

After this interaction, I was hurt for days after and was licking my wounds. I felt so sad for myself like someone had just kicked Bambi, the cartoon baby deer character.  Because I allowed myself to feel so hurt, I thought about changing our friendship status. I thought she had been mean to me for no valid reason. I am glad I didn’t do this and had the wherewithal to look at the scope of our relationship and not let this single incident define it.

I take full responsibility for my emotions which allowed my boat to be rocked like that.  As I share, it is important to acknowledge what you feel and that was what I was feeling. It wasn’t her fault I chose to react like that though her actions were the contributing cause.

I did text my friend in the following days to tell her I was very hurt by her reaction and her emotional projections at me. I let her know I had to employ all my spiritual tools and techniques for days to get myself out of that feeling of wounded funk. I am so thankful I had the voice to let her know this.

(Side note: Some readers may think my texting her was impersonal.  Just as background, I prefer to text over verbal communication because there is a written transcript for clarity. Also, I can be much more coherent and complete when I text as I can take my time to formulate my thoughts. In addition when I write, I am more in control of keeping my tone even-keeled.

I am a writer by nature and even my Turkish birth name, Katibe, means scribe. So that is my preferred mode of communication. I know others prefer verbal communications and feel that is more personal. In the past, I found when I hung up from phone conversations, I would often say “Now, why didn’t I say this or that?” It was then I learned, I would rather express through writing, texting, email, etc… Everyone has their preferred communication style.)

In the past, I would have kept my feelings to myself and suffered silently.  My friend was surprised I shared how her words and the energy in which she expressed them affected me. I had to let her know this. There were ramifications to her words and sound tones. If she had just said to me lovingly “You, know, Katibe, I felt hurt when you forgot my birthday” instead of lashing out at me weeks later at another unrelated incident would have been optimal. She hadn’t learned to communicate in that way yet. Why do we forget or simply not know we can communicate lovingly our desires and still be direct and get our points across?

There were lessons here for both of us. For this specific friend, I knew it was because she had not learned how to lovingly communicate from her family. More than one time, prior to this interaction, I heard telepathically out of the blue she had come from a “dysfunctional” family. In addition, she had shared some of her stories growing up and into adulthood about her family which validated the telepathy I received.

For every cause there is an effect. Sure, she dumped on me and it may have felt good to her temporarily to unleash that but then there is the effect. I am not a plastic doll. As a human, I am still living in the World of Form.  I am going to react or respond in some way. But again, I take full responsibility for the intensity and duration of my reactive low vibrational, egoic feelings. This is a solid example of how if you lash out and attack someone because you felt wronged in your righteousness, it is not done in a vacuum. There may be some fallout in the relationship as a direct result taking things out on someone.

After, she apologized twice to me verbally and said she never intended to hurt my feelings. I was thankful to receive these apologies. It was big of her to apologize.

I accumulated key learnings from all of this. I belief everything happens for a reason.  It is all in divine flow. I learned from my friend.  I learned we just needed to understand each other and be clear with each other.  I learned more about my friend’s persona and her value system from this interaction, which was different than mine, for future dealings with her.

I also expanded this learning to be cognizant that she is not the only person who uses such symbols like birthdays, special occasions and gifts to recognize friendship, value and love. I have had other family members, including in-laws, who got very upset if they didn’t receive their gifts and acknowledgements on their birthdays on time as well.

Hallmark, the American greeting card company, could not stay in business if some humans did not value milestone dates.  And then there are people like me and my mother who value other behaviors like how treating someone well over physical symbols like gifts or card.  Different strokes for different folks.

I sensed my friendship with this specific girlfriend changed slightly after that.  We are still friends and I would describe it as a solid friendship which I am appreciative for; However, she became more “careful” and aware around me. She slowly withdraw a bit. Perhaps, it was because I changed too after this interaction. I feel she felt bad she hurt my feelings though she apologized and I accepted her apology. Again this is the Law of Cause and Effect in play.  People can forgive but do not forget.

All in all, I feel we both have developed a further understanding and respect of ourselves and others after this interaction.

(Note: As a side: With the smart phones available now, it is easier to keep track and put recurring important events as reminders if once chooses to do this. I have done this and have gotten much better at key date remembrances though I could still improve on it.)

Why We Don’t Express-Conditioning and Indoctrination

Background, gender, culture and race affect the quality of how you communicate or not communicate. Admittedly when you are a child or a teenager, you may not be capable of such communication with the adults in your life and may not have the life skills to tell your mother or father you felt hurt by their words or actions. Also, this type of expression may not have even been allowed in your family or culture. You were not a “good boy or a good girl” if you did this. The adage “Respect your elders” may have been an underlying force as well.

For women as a collective all across the globe, we have absorbed, assimilated and have been taught the false concept of being subservient to men and “staying quiet,” generation after generation.

High Vibrational Communication

As you move into adulthood, you can learn to self express in a timely manner and with grace. High vibrational, loving, conscious communication is not taught in schools and many times not demonstrated by those around us, including those that raised us and love us.

There are books and articles on how to better communicate if you feel you need help on this. I have researched this myself and do practice the art of communicating. It is a work in process.

I developed the following (in alphabetical order) to help me define what loving, conscious communication is in ALL Types of Relationships, from personal to work. These are high vibrational, divine attributes:

  • Broad minded
  • Clear
  • Compassionate/Kind
  • Complete
  • Cooperative
  • Diplomatic/Tactful
  • Direct
  • Intuitive
  • Measured/Balanced
  • Open
  • Patient
  • Present
  • Receptive
  • Respectful to yourself and the parties involved
  • Understanding
  • Win/win for all

It is helpful to define something by what it is not. Loving, conscious communication is NOT the following, which are all ego-driven and low vibrational:

  • Accusing/blaming
  • Angry
  • Antagonistic
  • Closed
  • Condescending
  • Cruel
  • Defensive
  • Frustrated
  • Guilting/shaming
  • Intolerant
  • One sided
  • Petty
  • Selfish

The Levels of Forgiveness

Anything and anyone can be forgiven. Nothing is exempt or dire enough that the Universe says “This act or person is not forgivable.” This was demonstrated by some of the Holocaust survivors and Nelson Mandela, when he was released from prison after serving many years. Per Wikipedia he was a South African anti-apartheid revolutionary, political leader, and philanthropist, who served as President of South Africa from 1994 to 1999. He said the following:

“As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn’t leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I’d still be in prison.”

~Nelson Mandela

The forgiveness extended by the survivors of these atrocities serve as beautiful inspirations and upliftment that it is possible for us as well. They can serve as beacons of light for you on your own journey to unconditional forgiveness.

From Edgar Cayce, renowned psychic in-spirit, that I channeled:

“Find time to make peace with yourself. Forgiveness is an essential element for ascension. Forgiveness of oneself, for others, for all that you perceive that mankind has not achieved.”

The most important thing is just to start forgiving yourself and others.  If you can’t do this, just start contemplating it and meditating on it. You will be surprised as to how this will put into play supporting guidance for you in your life through life synchronicities and human messengers in the days following and ongoing to help you achieve forgiveness. Your Higher Self wants you to forgive and so do your Angels, Master Guides and all of your other etheric helpers. You forgive for your soul, to help it learn, experience and expand.

There are many levels of forgiveness. Just do it no matter what level you start at. You are showing the Universe you have “a little willingness” when you make even a small attempt to forgive. (“A little willingness” is a term from A Course in Miracles).

Forgiveness at the Source Level

In order to have the maximal impact though, the forgiveness must be genuine, authentic and at the source level.  This means it is done not only on the mind level but it flows through to the heart level.  It reaches farther than at superficial levels like lip talk. Forgiveness that acts only as a band-aid and does not address the issue at root, core levels is not complete emotional healing.

If it is a total cerebral activity without any corresponding changes in your heart space, then it is not occurring at the deepest levels. You may find over a period of time, even years that you will move through the different levels to get to the source if you are willing and courageous enough to do that.

Reasons to Forgive

Genuinely, unconditionally forgive others and yourself. I have been contemplating  why people do not forgive. I know you cannot tell some people just to forgive. They have to be convinced and incented as to why. So I listed quite a few solid reasons, 11 to be specific, following to help you choose forgiveness if you were hesitating in doing so as evidence. I, sincerely, hope this helps you to forgive whoever or whatever you are still carrying around with you and that is languishing in your energetic field. Then, I will have been successful in my light work task at hand.

Forgiveness has numerous benefits, emotionally, energetically and physically. I spelled them out for clarity and to show you how deep the effects of forgiveness are.  These are all reasons that have helped me to forgive quickly and even prevented situations from arising that may need forgiveness. Halleluiah for that!

Genuine forgiveness and an ongoing forgiveness practice contributes to the following:

  1. Increases your happiness and inner peace. Your life journey will be much lighter and easier if you don’t carry your past and attachments to grievances with you. Two emotions or two thoughts cannot occupy your mind simultaneously. So, if you carrying bitter thoughts and thoughts of hope,  thoughts of happiness and peace cannot find a place in your mind.
  2. Increases your inner vibration and therefore your frequency. When you are happy and at peace, this raises your vibration. An increased vibration connects you more directly to your intuition. A high vibration makes it easier for you to connect and communicate with your Higher Self, your Angels and other high level etheric guides who have been assigned to help you during your time here on Earth. An increased vibration also allows you to manifest more quickly.
  3. Helps you to ascend to the Higher Realms of your spiritual evolution more expediently. Remember, when you forgive, you emotionally heal. And when you let go, you soul grows and expands. This is the crux of the nature of all of our existences. It applies not only to me but to you and every one on the planet as well.
  4. Contributes to the increased vibration of your children, pets, people around you, plants, all other things and the entire world because we are all one. Pets absorb the frequency of the energy of those in their household. When the frequency of an emotion is low as unforgiveness is, it can potentially afflicted you and others around you with health conditions as well.  To me this is powerful. I do not want to pollute the world with my “unforgiveness energy of low vibration.” That is unfair to every one and everything else.  :(  I aspire to be a good steward of this planet and a responsible citizen.
  5. Increases the vitality of your aura (your energy field) and energetic structures such as your chakras. It clears and strengthens your upper chakras allowing your psychic senses and your connection to your intuition to fully develop.
  6. Removes the energetic “trash”, the blocks, constraints and lethargy that unforgiveness creates from your energy field and other energetic structures that inhibit and impedes your creative, energetic flow.
  7. Stops the stunting of your divine potential.
  8. Stops limiting your abundance on all levels~financial, physical, emotional, spiritual and emotional.
  9. Alleviates and prevents physical ailments, including aches, pains, disease, sickness and other forms of discomfort from occurring. According to Wikipedia: “Studies show that people who forgive are happier and healthier than those who hold resentments. The first study to look at how forgiveness improves physical health discovered that when people think about forgiving an offender it leads to improved functioning in their cardiovascular and nervous systems. Another study at the University of Wisconsin found the more forgiving people were, the less they suffered from a wide range of illnesses. The less forgiving people reported a greater number of health problems.”
  10. Prevents the creation of low vibrational karma that will need to be balanced and resolved in this lifetime or future lifetime(s).
  11. Improves and promotes higher quality relationships with everyone from personal, romantic, social, to work and most importantly with yourself.
  12. Reveals your unhealed emotional triggers and creates awareness of them which automatically helps to alleviate or prevent them from being pulled in the future.
  13. Prevents the occurrence of future emotionality within you and decreases the frequency of it as you retrain your mind, change your thoughts including to develop a divine based belief system of forgiveness to replace your false egoic system. You will be able to recognize your egoic feelings and process them more expediently to create beneficial shifts within yourself.
  14. Changes your present and your future to one infused with more fluidity, light, openness and opportunity.
  15. It releases the harmful ties to your past. You cannot change the past; However, you can change your perceptions about the past. It is known in the scientific community that the human mind plays tricks with human memory. Often, it creates false memories. So what you think happened in the past and the way it happened may actually be a falsehood. Researchers are beginning to understand that the human mind can create, distort, exaggerate or re-invent a memory after a traumatic experience or something that impacted someone greatly.

These are all powerful impetuses to transform your feelings to forgiveness in a timely fashion.

The following is a beautiful contemplation from Robert Holden, author of Lovability, to help you on your healing journey to forgiveness:

“Imagine what it would be like to wake up one morning and find you have forgiven everyone, and have only feelings of appreciation and love for your life.”

Don’t Kid Yourself

Carrying around unforgiveness of yourself and/or for those that are living or in-spirit is a burdensome weight that you do not need!  You may not realize the weight of what you have been carrying until you feel the weight of its release. You may say ” I am fine. Everything is good. I am happy enough.”

This is what I told myself for years. I fooled myself.  Energetically, it wasn’t fine. It wasn’t good. This is exactly what I experienced when I forgave certain people in my family and others for what I perceived as their past trespasses after my awakening. Upon release, I experienced such a lightness and euphoria. It was beautiful and absolutely amazing! I could tangibly feel the shift in my energetic field and the expansion of my heart chakra. It was powerful!

Why Forgiveness is Important

I channeled this from the Angelic Realm:

“Letting go and forgiving yourself and others without precondition will help facilitate your growth. It will remove unnecessary energetic debris and residue from your vibrational field. You will immediately feel clearer and lighter. You will notice the difference. “

Being unwilling to forgive is a terrible thing to do to yourself. It does you no good to carry the low vibrational, dense energy of unforgiveness around.  Because of its low frequency, it actually harms you energetically and potentially physically through health issues.

Do you not desire optimal physical health?

Nonforgiveness take you away from your inner peace and restricts you. I channeled the following from Archangel Michael on 5/25/15:

“In your moments of peace, you expand by leaps and bounds. Allow this to be your natural way.”

Not forgiving also drags not only your vibration down but that of everyone and everything around you. It is impossible to feel your best and free when you keep yourself bound to the past.  You are in a prison of your own choosing. Yuck! I no longer choose that for myself because I love myself.

The Universal Law of Karma

Because of the Universal Kaw of Karma, when you don’t forgive someone, you will need to balance that in this lifetime or in another future incarnation in another  lifetime(s) if it is not addressed and resolved in a high vibrational way which means unconditional forgiveness.

According to some studies of metaphysics, low vibrational karma can only be balanced or equalized on the dimensional plane it was created on.  Therefore, any low vibrational karma you create on Earth during this incarnation will need to be balanced in this lifetime or another lifetime to be addressed again with the same person, whether it be a friend, parent, sibling, ex-spouse or co-worker.

If your karma is not healed through transformation of changing the energy from low vibrational to high vibrational in this lifetime, it will carry over upon reincarnation into a future lifetime or lifetimes on Earth. The law of the conservation of energy states the total energy of a system remains constant. It can be converted, transferred or changed in form but not created or destroyed.

Forgive for Karma Balance

Therefore, it is important to shift your feelings of nonforgiveness to balance your karma and prevent any low vibrational karma from accumulating.

It is a downer to think you will come back to face a similar situation with that person until you resolve your karma with them in a high vibrational way which means with love, compassion, understanding and learning. Knowing you will need to come back again to balance your unforgiveness karma with that person or yourself and not doing anything to heal it is a form of self-sabotage.

Do you really want to do that to yourself?

Do you really want to experience a similar emotional disruption again with the same person in another lifetime though you both may be in different roles?

Think long-term. Take care of all of your emotional business and healing in this lifetime so you can reincarnate on Earth with a higher vibrational energetic blueprint. Ultimately, every person’s evolution is about ascending to the Higher Realms of Consciousness which is based on frequency. Non-forgiveness impedes this and keeps you back. So forgive easily and quickly, yourself and others.

It is impossible to be healthy and free when you keep yourself bound to the past. Be loving to yourself and forgive.

Everyone makes mistakes in life including ourselves but that doesn’t mean they or we have to pay for them the rest of our lives. Sometimes, “good” people make “bad” choices or choices you perceive to be wrongful.  This could be done intentionally or in ignorance. It doesn’t mean they or you are “bad”. It means they are human and are still learning.

Isn’t it unfair to hold something against someone for a transgression or a series of transgressions in years past?

Would you want others to hold that against you?

Do you not desire forgiveness from certain people in your life? So extend that with grace to others.

Having a Bachelor of Arts in Mathematics, I created this equation to help in healing:
Forgiveness=Release=Letting Go=Self-Healing=Self Love.

What Forgiveness DOES Not Mean

Forgiveness does not mean you allow others to continue to abuse your, be cruel to you or mistreat you.

Forgiveness does not mean you need to hang out with someone or have them over to dinner.

Forgiveness does not mean engaging in a reconciliation, a physical reunion or ongoing physical interactions in business or in your personal life with them.

Forgiveness does not mean you need to regularly communicate with someone.

Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, denying or suppressing what you have felt.

Forgiveness does not mean you accept, condone or validate the other person’s words or actions.

Forgiveness does not mean you trust the person.

Forgiveness does not mean you are weak.

Blocks to Forgiveness-Your Ego

It is your low vibrational ego that block forgiveness.  Your human ego is a very strong, reactive mechanism.  It has been conditioned over the many, many years of your life by all that is around you since you were born and further conditioned by your ancestry.

It is your ego that wants to continue to feel victimized, righteous and indignant. It is your ego that wants apologies, retributions and revenge. It is your ego that wants to keep score of rights and wrongs.

Nelson Mandela put it aptly when he said the following:

“You will achieve more in this world through acts of mercy than you will through acts of retribution.”

It is your ego that can hold a grievance for years and years and years.  It is your ego that wants to blame people and acts of the past as to why you are not successful or happy in the present.

To quote Nelson Mandela again:

“Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.”

The Past is the Past

You cannot turn back the hands of time. It is what it is. I am sorry some of you went through or are going through difficult situations with difficult people, including your own families. Some souls have chosen very difficult soul lessons during this Earthly incarnation to acquire the divine attributes of compassion, fortitude, independence, inner strength or fortitude.  But aren’t you tired of walking around feeling emotionally wounded and scarred? Don’t you want to move on in triumph and empowered by your new learnings?

Waiting for an Apology 

It is a sign of strength to forgive someone who isn’t sorry and to detach from expecting an apology.  Sometimes, people don’t give us the apologies we are waiting for and then they pass into the afterlife and we still don’t receive them. Some people because of their egos really get hung up on wanting to hear that apology.

Learning not to receive an apology with grace is part of life and everyone’s learning.  Learn to give to yourself what you expect from others. Stop waiting for that apology that may never come. Emotionally heal yourself by forgiving.

Realize that some people, like your care givers and other key people did their best with what they knew at the time.  How could they give to you what they never learned to receive themselves? So you see, certain low vibrational emotional patterns and behaviors are ancestral and just repeat in cycles. When you become aware and choose the higher ground, you can break out of these cycles and stop the loop not just for you but for your own family and future generations.

Some caregivers were unknowing and insensitive that you were processing information from them in that way and feeling hurt because you did not communicate that to them either because you were too young or didn’t know you could question them. Perhaps, you were taught to be a dutiful child and not question your elders.

People Who Are Intentionally Mean

Then there are some people in life who know full darn well the errancy of what they are doing but don’t change it. It is not due to how you perceive them. They can just be nasty people at times.  They may be intentionally callous, mean and spiteful. Many times it is because they have unhappy lives without love and are projecting it out on innocent people around them.  This is never an excuse or justification to mistreat others or be cruel.

It is what it is and you cannot control others. You can only control and choose your feelings.

If your nature is of one that gets easily hurt and is sensitive and you know you do not have the patience and deep levels of compassion required to deal with these type of personality types who are intentionally mean, limit your interactions and communications with them as much as possible. This is a form of self-love.

Do not become the martyr and try to help them if it comes at a high cost for you. But I know, there are very special, tender people out there who have been sent to Earth to help these lost, struggling souls, (Thank Goodness!) but you may not be one of those. And that is okay.

Know thyself! Know your limits. It does not mean you are not a loving person. You can still pray for them and send them love and light for their well-being and highest good from afar without directly engaging with them. This counts and is a form of love and beautiful service.

The Human Ego

Your human ego is a very strong, reactive mechanism.  It has been conditioned over many, many years. Just being mindful of your inner emotional state and noting when you feel out of balance, creates an awareness of your ego when it is in play to help you move out of and dissipate it. Again, consistent, preferably daily practices of meditation and inner stillness can help create this self-awareness.

Wanting Vengeance

Desiring vengeance is a block to forgiveness. There are some who want to “get back” and “get even” at someone that wronged them. They want vengeance. In certain cultures, some even engage in putting curses on people. They don’t want to see this people doing well and feel they should be punished and deserve retribution. This is primal behavior.

Is this a reactive thought and behavioral pattern you possess? Be honest with yourself.

I am here to tell you to stop doing this. Stop it, now. It is emotionally immature, malicious, an indicator of excessive pride and low vibrational. An eye for an eye just makes the entire world blind. This is why there is not peace in the Middle East. I know earlier in the post I stated that you can’t tell someone to forgive but I am telling you now directly, if seeking revenge is your way, to stop it now. I felt guided to take this firm tone as I feel some readers may be engaging in these behaviors.

Find other ways to vent and release your feelings in a non-detrimental way. For example, journaling is a wonderful exercise. Reread the nine reasons above which I have carefully laid out for you to transform your thoughts.

The Universal Law of Karma Will Take Care of It

Respect the laws of energy. Know that Universal Law of Karma will take care of any necessary consequences to someone’s egregious words or behaviors. You do not have to take it upon yourself to control this.  The Universe in its infinite organizational power works in mysterious ways. It may not be evident or clear to you how it applies the karma to the person or the situation. Do not worry if you don’t see it. The Universe may or may not want you to be privy to it.

Sit back and let karma take care of it. Trust the Universal Law of Karma. Respecting and living within the principles of Karma has personally helped me move through and on many a situation. It has taken the load and pressure off my back for me to “take care of things.”

Doesn’t letting the Universal Law of Karma do its work make it easier for you?

Of course, do communicate and set your boundaries in a diplomatic manner to educate people if you feel guided to do so. I have done this many a time. The power of self expression is an important function of your throat chakra. I always attempt to express in a high vibrational manner with love and compassion, rather than ranting, raving and with vitriol.

How Do You Know When You Truly Forgave?

Forgiveness means you can genuinely send yourself &/or the other person involved light, love and wish them well in their life journey without having any low vibrational emotional charge. You will know you truly forgave when you feel clear, light and nonreactive with the specific person or yourself. You do not need or even want or expect an apology, retribution or any kind of compensation.

The Power of Affirmations

Besides the forgiveness technique I shared earlier, I am a strong proponent of repeating positive affirmations. I know some do not like affirmations and feel they are futile and useless. I feel they have this opinion because they were not consistent enough in repeating them or perhaps did it only for a short time.

I had an entirely different experience with affirmations. The reiteration of them done in a quality manner of being present and heartfelt on a daily basis in the Spring of 2009 was one of the catapulting factors that spurred my spiritual awakening. I was very intense with them and studied and memorized them like I had prepared for the Certified Public Accounting (CPA) Exam. Therefore, affirmations are huge for me. Other prolific spiritual teachers like Louise Hay also support the saying of affirmations. Let me just say, they worked for me!

The quality of the way you do affirmations is key. Affirmations are most effective when repeated often during the day & evening for at least 21 days to yourself with heartfelt intention.  I liked to repeat them three times a day. Best times to repeat are when you are very relaxed like before going to sleep,  immediately upon waking up while still in bed & during meditations.  Repetition with heartfelt intention over a period of time is the key to undo or rewrite over your limiting, conditioned & automatic thought responses.

You can repeat affirmations to yourself or out loud. If you say them out loud, it adds the extra amplification of sound energy.

Affirmations should be short, concise, positive and in the present tense as if they are already occurred. Make sure the verbiage and style of them are resonant to your own speaking style. For example, I have read some affirmations which are grandiose and flowery and that is not my communication style, so I chose other suitable affirmations.

You can also handwrite affirmations out daily to change your thought system. You can put them on post-its in the spaces you are in:  on your bathroom mirror, refrigerator, car dashboard or use them as a smart phone or computer screen saver. You can create your own sound files and replay them to yourself. Any way that helps tickle your memory to the affirmation is useful.

The most important forgiveness affirmation to me and the one I shared earlier in this blog post is:

“I love myself.”

Another similar one is:

“I love myself now and into the future.”

Here are some other affirmations you may want to repeat daily:

“I believe in myself.”

“I move beyond forgiveness to understanding to have compassion and kindness for all, including myself.”

“I forgive myself and everyone in my life in the past.”

Here are some forgiveness affirmations which I channeled:

“I forgive myself and others entirely and acknowledge what I learned with gentleness. This is important for my growth and well-being.”

~Archangel Ariel, channeled by Katibe Simmone, 5/25/15

“I can recognize instantly those moments when I need to forgive myself and others.”

~ Archangel Uriel

“As I forgive myself, it becomes easier to forgive others.”

You can also come up with your own affirmations and include in them specific people. For example:

“I unconditionally forgive my sister, Nadine.”

The 2018 Universal Year Energy

The 11 energy of the 2018 (2+0+1+8=11) Universal Year is supporting you. Now, is the time to authentically forgive yourself and others.

As the duration of time increases till forgiveness, its low vibrational energy becomes more cemented and set into your energetic field causing detrimental impacts to your well-being. So forgive in a timely fashion. Amen!

I will end this post with the same beautiful quote, I started it with.

💚 “It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, to forgive. Forgive everybody.“~Maya Angelou

“Forgive yourself, as well.”~Katibe Simmone

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Welcome!

I am an advanced channeler of Light Beings.  I provide guidance from many different Light Beings and shares their wisdom on my Facebook, blog, videos and in my free eBook.  I am unique in that I channel these Beings word for word through telepathic means.  They act as high level guides and teachers to help and inspire you on your life journey.

I had a spiritual awakening in 2009.  I realized I was a spiritual being in a physical body for my highest spiritual evolution to becoming an expressed Divine Being in physical form.  Because of this increased level of consciousness, my psychic centers and specific chakras like my Third Eye and Crown Chakra were activated.  I developed heightened extrasensory perceptions such as clairvoyance, clairaudience and the ability to receive some information telepathically. Telepathy is a form of clairaudience, the psychic sense of hearing.

Because of my awakening my dream time also changed dramatically.  As a result I became a lucid dreamer. I have blogged about and shared videos of some of my more extraordinary OBEs.

I heard telepathically to teach what I know.  I have heard the word “tenzin” which means upholder of teachings in Tibetan a few times since my awakening. I founded Soul Evolution Center in February 2013 to help you evolve into your best life.  I am a published author, speaker and workshop facilitator on various spiritual and metaphysical topics.  I offer many developmental workshops and certifications that can be customized in private, small or large groups by webinar, Skype and teleconference.

Learn more about me here.

Namaste,

Katibe (Katy) Simmone
* Life Wisdom from Beyond * Founder of SoulEvolutionCenter.com

* Author* Speaker * Workshop Facilitator * Soul Evolution Coaching* Advanced Channeler of Light Beings
* Host of the Soul Evolution Show on BlogTalkRadio
* Follow the Soul Evolution Center Show on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/soulevolutioncenter Download or listen to Prior Episodes 24/7 for Free
* Author of the free eBook “Aristotle’s Teachings for the New Age, a Series of Channelings” FREE download in many reading formats at http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/575068
* Reiki Master/Reiki Teacher * Private webinars available
* Subscribe to Katy’s email list at http://eepurl.com/6-CcD & receive a free gift.
* Subscribe to the Soul Evolution Center Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWCgWWhH4Zh1vLVAynUG5Kg

We Are Not Broken or Alone

We are not broken

This is an inspiration for you. The following is what I shared in response to a post from someone on a spiritual Facebook group page with some additions in June of 2018. It is a rebuttal to one of the assumptions presented that “we are all broken.” This post also stated that “we are not alone,” which I wholeheartedly agree with and which I share my thoughts on below.

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A stimulating dialogue! I am not broken. I choose to believe my innate nature which is of divineness is perfect, whole and complete as I and all others have been created to be. It is the human ego which shrouds and shadows our divinity and explains why it may appear that we are not living in Utopia if we all are divine beings by nature.  The purpose of human spiritual evolution, including your own soul purpose, is to becoming a fully expressed Divine Being, to embody love in human form, through dissipation of our egos. This is a major concept I present in my upcoming e-Book “Emotional Healing through Spiritual Awakening.”

Many times I hear from people they are lonely. I have heard it from friends, clients  students and fellow workshop participants. Some people feel lonely because they are not in a relationship. Some people feel lonely even in relationships.  Some people feel lonely because they have no family or children. Some people feel lonely even if they have six children. It runs the gamut. Many times the root of one’s loneliness goes deep. It is because of unhealed, unaddressed emotional wounds from childhood. I encourage you to journal and contemplate this if you have a tendency to feel bouts of loneliness.

I feel if you truly believed in a Higher Power, you would not feel lonely. You would have faith and trust that some Divine Intelligence, Source, Creator, God, Allah or whatever is the term you use is always there with you. Those who feel lonely often want it in a physical form from a fellow human being, yearning for touch, affection.  and companionship on a physical level. An invisible, energetic etheric Being that you cannot hold or kiss does not fulfill this need. Most of us have been conditioned to only value that which we can discern with our physical senses. Hence, this is why many do not utilize their intangible intuition or develop their psychic senses.

At times, I may be physically alone but I am never lonely. As I increased my vibration since my spiritual awakening in 2009, I began to develop higher consciousness and a deepening knowingness of the metaphysical phrase “We are all one.” In any moment I can connect to beautiful Mother Earth and my divinity and I do that. The sky, including the marvelous cloudscapes, the amazing trees, the songs of the birds and all of the other Mother Nature’s offerings bring me back home to who I am, who we all are, Divine Beings of Love.  This is our core essence.

Presence and the eyes to appreciate are these simple gifts which are given to you and available all the time are needed.  A consistent practice of quality meditation will help you to attain these levels. If you are not living in the present moment and caught up in your egoic monkey mind, you will miss the Divine Beauty that is all around you and which can sustain and keep you emotionally balanced.

When you feel loneliness, it is because your conditioned ego has erroneously created separateness.   It makes you feel you are separated from everyone and everything else.  Believing in this makes you feel lonely and at times results in desperation. This can lead you to choose the wrong partners and make other detrimental life decisions.

We, including our ego, are a product of all that has happened to us. This includes the attitudes, beliefs and other energies we have absorbed and internalized as a baby into adulthood from our parents, caretakers, families, ancestors, society and media. These molded us. Sometimes, it wasn’t beneficial and do not serve us well.

When you become spiritual awakened, you begin to take back your power and that which you have been indoctrinated with consciously and subconsciously will have less of an influence on you, your thought patterns,  intentions and decision making. You begin to shift into higher levels of awareness and consciousness and are no longer the lamb following the flock.

It is your human ego that creates false beliefs of separateness, lack and limitation. It is your ego which sees yourself as broken. Think of the connotations associated with the word “broken.” That does not serve one well to refer to oneself or others as broken. It is not flattering and certainly not a compliment. Why view yourself in this shadow in this fragmented way?

Many of us have been conditioned to look out into the world which is how our physical eyes see. Only a small percentage of the population have developed their “inner sight” and turn inward to see themselves in their True Nature of Divineness and Compassion.

I choose to empower myself to live a life of joy, peace and love, an endowment we all have. I choose to stand in the strength which is within me. I cannot live in this high vibrational manner if I see myself as broken or alone. I choose not to see myself as victim of my life circumstances.  I choose not to wallow in my pain.  I choose to triumph over my life adversities, big and small. 

It is important to be noted that the acknowledgment and processing of the low vibrational emotions you are feeling is essential. Denying, ignoring, repressing and suppression your true feelings will ultimately result in future problems such as blockages and constraints in your energetic field, prevention of reaching your potential, hindering your creative flow and even physical ailments of discomfort, pain and disease. All of these lower your inner vibration. When you lower your vibration, your spiritual ascension to higher levels is impeded. Who needs or wants that? No, thanks, not for me! I consciously choose otherwise. 

You are what you focus on. I choose to focus on being grateful for all the beautiful blessings in my life instead of focusing on my “brokenness,” pain, sorrow, grievances and conflict. It is not that I am not aware of these. It is not that I don’t feel these from time to time. Of course, I have had occurrences of these in my life and observe others experiencing these as well.  It is not that we don’t have personality aspects and traits  that we can strengthen or improve upon.  These are all part of our humanity.

But my focus is elsewhere, not on what I don’t have or what is missing in my life, but on the good, abundance and blessings in my life because above all, I deserve and choose a life of happiness.  As you do.  I choose not to languish in low vibrational feelings because it is not good for me. It moves me further and further way from joy. Having this understanding and applying it is transcendence and enlightenment. 

No one or no life event is going to dullen my sparkle! I am not going to allow that.  I am not going to give away my power. The amazing will of the human spirit! It all lays in what you are choosing to think. Amen.  This is solely (soul-ly) your responsibility. No one else’s. No one can hand this to you. No one can do this for you as much as you want to make someone else responsible for your happienss. You need to make a conscious decision to live differently in this light then apply it EVERY day with every interaction. 

I had a spiritual awakening in 2009 which I compare to a near death experience because of how it shifted my perceptions. As a result over the following years, I developed a new, expanded vision of my life and the world around me. It was a homecoming and a remembrance of who I was and who I always have been. Because of my ego and societal conditioning, I had forgotten and buried this all the the years prior and for most of my adulthood. Now, the hood has been lifted. I have clarity.

Because of my experiences, I am meant to teach others and help to illuminate their paths.

Peace, love and happiness to all! So be it!
Namaste.

~ The image for this blog post are beautiful flowers outside my gym on the Connecticut Shoreline.

Please know I am the only editor of this post so excuse any grammatical or editing errors.  I do several editing passes before publishing but gosh darn it, there always seems to be some typos I overlooked! Because I gift this as a free resource for my readers as part of my soul’s service during this incarnation, I do not pay anyone to help me with the editing. Thank-you in advance for your understanding so please forgive me for any errors you may encounter!

Copyright © Katibe Simmone. All Rights Reserved. You may copy and redistribute this material, including excerpts as long as you do not alter it in any way, and the content remains accurate, is distributed freely or commercially, and you include this copyright notice and link: http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/ .

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Welcome!

I am an advanced channeler of Light Beings.  I provide guidance from many different Light Beings and shares their wisdom on my Facebook, blog, videos and in my free eBook.  I am unique in that I channel these Beings word for word through telepathic means.  They act as high level guides and teachers to help and inspire you on your life journey.

I had a spiritual awakening in 2009.  I realized I was a spiritual being in a physical body for my highest spiritual evolution to becoming an expressed Divine Being in physical form.  Because of this increased level of consciousness, my psychic centers and specific chakras like my Third Eye and Crown Chakra were activated.  I developed heightened extrasensory perceptions such as clairvoyance, clairaudience and the ability to receive some information telepathically. Telepathy is a form of clairaudience, the psychic sense of hearing.

Because of my awakening my dream time also changed dramatically.  As a result I became a lucid dreamer. I have blogged about and shared videos of some of my more extraordinary OBEs.

I heard telepathically to teach what I know.  I have heard the word “tenzin” which means upholder of teachings in Tibetan a few times since my awakening. I founded Soul Evolution Center in February 2013 to help you evolve into your best life.  I am a published author, speaker and workshop facilitator on various spiritual and metaphysical topics.  I offer many developmental workshops and certifications that can be customized in private, small or large groups by webinar, Skype and teleconference.

Learn more about me here.

Namaste,

Katibe (Katy) Simmone
* Life Wisdom from Beyond * Founder of SoulEvolutionCenter.com

* Author* Speaker * Workshop Facilitator * Soul Evolution Coaching* Advanced Channeler of Light Beings
* Host of the Soul Evolution Show on BlogTalkRadio
* Follow the Soul Evolution Center Show on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/soulevolutioncenter Download or listen to Prior Episodes 24/7 for Free
* Author of the free eBook “Aristotle’s Teachings for the New Age, a Series of Channelings” FREE download in many reading formats at http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/575068
* Reiki Master/Reiki Teacher * Private webinars available
* Subscribe to Katy’s email list at http://eepurl.com/6-CcD & receive a free gift.
* Subscribe to the Soul Evolution Center Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWCgWWhH4Zh1vLVAynUG5Kg

Out-of-Body Experience to Affirm Safe & Secure Travels

Safe Travels For Blog Post

Welcome, I share an amazing lucid OBE (out-of-body experience) I had on 4/16/18 to show how you can have a non-Earth dimensional adventure in an altered state of consciousness   This OBE  falls under one of the categories I created for OBEs as laid out in my OBE conceptual framework, OBEs as dimensional platforms to receive reassurance. This can be for some upcoming event you may be having or attending or in regard to a problem you are having on the Earthly plane. By what you witness and/or the nature of your interaction in this type of OBE  will help to relieve any anxiety or worry you have been carrying about it.

We all have out of body experiences naturally in our sleep state because we are multi-dimensional beings. The Universe never misses an opportunity for soul expansion. It is efficient and will use whatever means including OBEs to help you learn. Important timely guidance or affirmation to reassure or comfort you during your Earthly life can be imparted.  Your Spirit may intentionally take you to another dimensional realm to receive this at this specific time juncture in your life.

An altered state of consciousness can be during a deep meditation, your sleep state or in your hypnogogic (right before sleep) or hypnopompic state (right after waking up from sleep). Your spirit wants to have these experiences so it acts as the navigator to dimensional destinations.

I have developed an OBE conceptual framework, including definitions, to help others who are having similar experiences and for people in general to understand this topic and to introduce the concept of our human multidimensionality.  Please read it at: http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/out-of-body-experiences-conceptual-framework/

Human beings exist on many levels of consciousness which allows them to travel to and exist on other non Earth dimensional realms. Our consciousness is complex and goes far beyond then just our conscious and subconscious states.  Within our subconscious state there are multiple tiers of consciousness.

We can lucidly visit these alternate dimensions in our altered states of consciousness. We have past, present, concurrent and future lifetimes in these other dimensional frequencies. I know this because I have experienced these in OBEs and received telepathic information on these since my spiritual awakening in 2009.

In states of deep relaxation as in meditation or sleep we can catch glimpses of these and recall our dimensional travels. Many of my OBEs happen spontaneously and naturally when I am sleeping which is how this one occurred.

OBEs are not readily talked about. It is a new frontier of human consciousness. This blog post is fulfillment of my soul mission to teach others about OBEs.  I am a pioneer like Amelia Earhart was in females in aviation. And I did receive an affirming clairvoyant vision of her, not just an image but a moving vision, of her.

My OBE conceptual framework is evolving which I tweak, including adding to and enhancing, as I need to with each OBE I experience.  It is an evolving work in process. I started developing this framework in the Spring of 2009 of my spiritual awakening when I started having numerous lucid OBEs. I wanted to understand what I was experiencing and to see if there were any patterns. Hence, I created the framework.

Now, nine years later of having numerous OBEs, I feel good about this framework. I also received a telepathic validating message in my own thought voice in 2018 that I am beginning to understand the nature of OBEs.  But I know, there is more. I will be adding to it as I learn and acquire the information through my experiences.

Please read the blog post below first  if you haven’t already to give you context and a basic foundation to help you understand OBEs from my theoretical construct. I highly advise you to do this supplemental reading. If you don’t, you may be confused with what I share below.

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/out-of-body-experiences-conceptual-framework/

Psychological Interpretation

Because the Universe is so creative and unconventional with its infinite organizing power, it is important to do a traditional psychological interpretation of any OBE you experience, besides taking it at face value. There may be important symbology embedded within it you can use almost immediately to help you in your Earthly life. Don’t ignore this valuable modality of guidance.

Please see the end of this blog post to learn more about me.

Enjoy!

Resources for this post:

To learn more about out of body experiences and my OBE conceptual framework, please see my earlier blog post:

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/out-of-body-experiences-conceptual-framework/

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4/16/18 OBE Sequence #1 Helpful Delta Attendant: This is the only OBE segment I lucidly remember from this evening. I did have a few others but I cannot recall those details.

I was at an airport terminal at a layover. I was standing in a line outside during the day. There was a tall man with dark hair and a mustache in front of me. He had a blue collared long sleeve shirt on, a red vest and navy-blue pants. He stepped out from the line. He put a long thin pin on his lapel. It looked like a Delta Airline pin. Then I know he was a Delta airline attendant. That is the airline that my husband usually business travels on.

Psychic download. I also got a psychic download that Delta gave their employees a few choices for uniform selection and this attendant had selected the one he was wearing, which is why it didn’t look the usual Delta uniform on the Earthly plane.

He took my green small carry on that I have on the Earthly plane and put it on the narrow three feet long table in front of him.

Now I am following him. He is wheeling my suitcase. We came to a room. It was a holding room before boarding the plane. He goes in front of me and disappears.

There is an Asian woman standing in line in front of me.  Passengers are coming into the room and standing in line. I realize I don’t have my carry on suitcase.

I say something out loud about not having my suitcase in a worried tone. The Asian woman helps me. I worry about losing my place in line because more and more people are coming in to stand in line.

We walk to the back wall where the uniformed black female airline attendant is. I tell her I don’t have my carry on. She has a paper in front of her. I knew she had the airline tickets or some sort of paperwork for the male Delta attendant and my suitcase.

The male attendant had already taken care of my suitcase for me and it was on the plane! He even made sure he left the appropriate paperwork to document that with this female attendant. I was relieved.

The OBE dissipated.

OBE Sequence #1 Analysis:  This OBE was significant because I felt this was validation in the form of reassurance from the Universe to not fret and worry about my upcoming air travels to the Carolinas for a spiritual retreat I will be attending at the end of the month. I will be taken care of and I will have support from the Universe to help get me there safely. These helpers can be human helpers or invisible guides.

In reality, I have been concerned because I am flying alone and renting a car to drive over an hour and a half to get to the retreat in the mountains.  I have never been to this retreat before. I fly infrequently and when I do, I usually fly with my family. I am not used to being a solo airline traveler.

I have been using my spiritual tools to calm myself and affirm to myself I am capable and put out high vibrational energy for safe, timely and joyful travels for myself. I practice living in the present and don’t worry my mind about it. In addition, I have been praying and asking my Angels for help and support during my travels. Because of a few incidences in the past when I have travelled alone or with others, I am insecure about my ability to follow the GPS or a map in unfamiliar terrain.

Beside doing spiritual work, I will also take prudent physical actions like printing out paper directions before I leave as a backup to my phone GPS if there is poor reception in the mountains or my phone battery is not properly charged. I have already left plenty of time cushions to allow me ample time in case I do get lost driving.

I was very happy and relieved when I woke up and analyzed this OBE. I appreciated this comforting message to alleviate my worries. I do feel better about my approaching travels as a result. Thank-you, Universe! I appreciate this!

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Know I am the only editor of this post so please excuse any grammatical or editing errors. Because I gift this as a free resource for my readers as part of my soul’s service during this incarnation, I do not pay anyone to help me with the editing. Also, most of the time I just want to get this knowledge posted and out to the public so I do just a few editing passes. But gosh darn it even after proofing it a few times, there always seems to be some typos I overlooked! I know distribution of these sharings is important and my etheric Guides do not want me to spend excessive time and effort on being an editing perfectionist.

Thank-you in advance for your understanding and please forgive me for any errors you may encounter!

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Copyright © Katibe Simmone. All Rights Reserved. You may copy and redistribute this material, including excerpts as long as you do not alter it in any way, and the content remains accurate, is distributed freely, and you include this copyright notice and link: http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/ .

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Welcome!

I am an advanced channeler of Light Beings.  I provide guidance from many different Light Beings and shares their wisdom on my Facebook, blog, videos and in my free eBook.  I am unique in that I channel these Beings word for word through telepathic means.  They act as high level guides and teachers to help and inspire you on your life journey.

I had a spiritual awakening in 2009.  I realized I was a spiritual being in a physical body for my highest spiritual evolution to becoming an expressed Divine Being in physical form.  Because of this increased level of consciousness, my psychic centers and specific chakras like my Third Eye and Crown Chakra were activated.  I developed heightened extrasensory perceptions such as clairvoyance, clairaudience and the ability to receive some information telepathically. Telepathy is a form of clairaudience, the psychic sense of hearing.

Because of my awakening my dream time also changed dramatically.  As a result I became a lucid dreamer. I have blogged about and shared videos of some of my more extraordinary OBEs.

I heard telepathically to teach what I know. I founded Soul Evolution Center in February 2013 to help you evolve into your best life.  I am a published author, speaker and workshop facilitator on various spiritual and metaphysical topics.  I offer many developmental workshops and certifications that can be customized in private, small or large groups by webinar, Skype and teleconference.

Learn more about me here.

Namaste,

Katibe (Katy) Simmone
* Life Wisdom from Beyond * Founder of SoulEvolutionCenter.com

* Author* Speaker * Workshop Facilitator * Soul Evolution Coaching* Advanced Channeler of Light Beings
* Host of the Soul Evolution Show on BlogTalkRadio
* Follow the Soul Evolution Center Show on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/soulevolutioncenter Download or listen to Prior Episodes 24/7 for Free
* Author of the free eBook “Aristotle’s Teachings for the New Age, a Series of Channelings” FREE download in many reading formats at http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/575068
* Reiki Master/Reiki Teacher * Private webinars available*Book on Website Calendar
* Subscribe to Katy’s email list at http://eepurl.com/6-CcD & receive a free gift.
* Subscribe to the Soul Evolution Center Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWCgWWhH4Zh1vLVAynUG5Kg

 

Increased Telepathy, Clairvoyancy & Semi-Trance Channeling

Increased Telepathy For Blog Post

All I have to say is “Wow!”. I want to share these numerous unique heightened experiences I had of psychic activity in different forms on 4/12/18 Wednesday before sleep at about 10:30 p.m. I wanted to blog quickly about this to share with others how you can receive psychic information. It is fascinating stuff!

I know what I share may be unbelievable. It is genuine and authentic. Ever since my spiritual awakening in 2009 what I thought was real many times was an Illusion (i.e. status, prestige, my ideas of success, etc…) and what I thought was fantasy turned out to be real (i.e. angels, other dimensions, extraterrestrials, communicating with Spirit, etc…).

After my awakening, my world turned upside down and inside out. It has been quite a journey. It led me to make a career change from accounting work, which I have in Master’s degree in and a CPA (Certified Public Accountant), to become a spiritual teacher, writer and founder of Soul Evolution Center, whose mission is to help you evolve into your best life. What a switcheroo!

This evening of 4/12/18 I received the full shebang of psychic experiences! Ha! Good thing I have had enough psychic phenomena over the past nine years to handle it.  What happened this night was a rare occurrence. This level of psychic intensity only happens to me maybe once or twice a year to give you an idea of how rare it is.

I know some may get totally turned off by what I share. Some may even think I am possessed by the devil and engaging in dark magic or witchcraft. I assure you, it is not that.

Astrological Age of Aquarius

It is this: In this current Age of Aquarius we are in, more and more people will be activating and tapping into their psychic senses as they spiritually awaken. So what I share below will be more common place for many as one raises their consciousness and therefore their inner vibration.

Telepathically, many times I have heard “You are an early riser” and “You are part of the New World.” I have heard this often enough clearly not to doubt it.  Therefore, what I am experiencing now with these psychic experiences  and attempting to understand, know and become more adept at, many others will be coming into this fold of their innate gifts in the upcoming years.

I share mine so you can learn and not freak out and be utterly confused like I was when it first happened to me and has continued on to this day. That is one of my roles on Earth, to share, disseminate and teach others to help pave the way for their understanding and hopefully to raise consciousnesses.

My first e-book Aristotle’s Teachings for the New Age, a Series of Channelings” is all about the Age of Aquarius and the changes to take place across the globe. These are actually realignments and rebalancings. You can download this book  for free in many reading formats at http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/575068 .

Astrological Influence of the Moon That Night

I would love to have these type of strong psychic experiences that I experienced on 4/12/18 every night! I felt that the moon being in the astrological sign of Pisces may have helped promote my psychic receptivity that night. Pisces is a water sign and the most mystical and intuitive sign of the zodiac. I am a Cancer water sign. The planetary ruler of Cancer is the moon. So, I am especially sensitive to changes in the moon which may explain why I was in hyper psychic mode that night.

Please see the end of this blog post to learn more about me.

Enjoy!

Resources for this post:

To learn more about the Third Eye and activity within in it, please see my earlier blog post:

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/category/third-eye-scapes/

To learn more about trance channeling, please see my earlier blog post:

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/5415-important-info-about-trance-channeling/

 

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4/12/18 10:35 p.m. Astrological Positions: Sun in Aries. Moon in Pisces. Waning Crescent Moon.

The following psychic activities I chronicle below all happened when my eyes were closed before going to sleep for the night.

Heightened Telepathy. I received enhanced telepathy, which is a form of clairaudiency, the psychic sense of hearing. 90% of the telepathy I usually receive is in my own thought voice. But this time some of the clairaudiency were real voices, with specific pitch, tones and speaking styles! As soon as I closed my eyes, this vivid clairaudiency kicked int. Immediately, I knew I was in a heightened state of psychic receptivity.

Clairvoyancy. Clairvoyancy is the psychic sense of seeing. It is associated with your Third Eye chakra. The clairvoyancy I received consisted of both static images and moving visions inside my head with my eyes closed.

To learn more about the Third Eye and activity within in it, please see my earlier blog post:

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/category/third-eye-scapes/

Straddling Alternate Dimensional Realms in Your Third Eye. In addition, this night the clairvoyancy took an accelerated form. I felt like I was straddling different dimensional realms, the earthly plane as I lay in bed and the dimensional realm with people I was seeing in my Third Eye chakra. If you ever had this experience, you will know how surreal it is.

Because I am very much alert and lucid in an awakened state though my eyes are closed, when I experience this, I truly know other dimensional planes outside of the Earthly plane exist. Who are these unfamiliar people I am seeing in my Third Eye who seem to be looking right at me, talking to me and engaging with me?

I would love to experience this in meditations but unfortunately, it has only occurred infrequently and only before sleeping for the night.

Mini Semi-Trance Channeling. And to top it off this night, a Being blended in my energy field in a quick, short attempt to express himself through me! I knew it was a male Being but I am not sure who exactly came through me. I know that may be surprising that I did not know what Being it was. Welcome to Katibe’s World!

Was it Mr. Edgar Cayce, the famous psychic in spirit who I have telepathically channeled before for clients’ readings in the past, or was it Dr. Marcel Vogel, a metaphysical inventor in-spirit, whose unique work on programming crystals my husband has used?

The semi-trance connection was too short for me to differentiate and I did not receive any other supporting psychic information to clarify who the Being was. Sigh!

Trance Channeling – Trance channeling is one of the most complex, intense types of channeling to receive psychic information from Beings in other dimensional frequencies. There are different levels of trance channeling as well, ranging from a light trance to a deep, full trance. In trance channeling the channeler goes into a deeper state of consciousness to directly channel a Light Being.

The Being blends with the energetic field of the channeler, using the physical system of the channeler including their larynx, vocal chords, voice box, diaphragm, and possibly other body areas as well like their fingers, arms, legs, head, and neck as well. In a deep trance, the channeler is unconscious during these proceedings.

With trance channeling, the Light Being is able to manipulate to control parts of the channeler’s physical system. It is more than just a telepathic form of channeling but may include this as well.

To learn more about trance channeling, please see my earlier blog post: http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/5415-important-info-about-trance-channeling/

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I describe my night-time routine preceding as a lead in to the circumstances which may have contributed to the intensity of psychic information I received before sleep that night:

My Nighttime Routine

On 4/12/18 I went to bed at 10:30 p.m. I had gotten a few hours of writing in on my log and my second book on Emotional Healing through Spiritual Awakening. I also had worked out with weights that day, showered before bed and hunkered down with a good nonfiction read for the evening. This was my idea of a perfect night.

For 2.5 hours, I reread the first 50 pages of the eBook “How to Become Strong Enough to Love” by Margaret Paul, Ph.D. right before bed. I am getting a lot out of reading it the second time. I’m thinking I should read it a third time as well. So glad I am rereading it! Thank-you, Universe, for guiding me toward that!

How it Started

At 10:35 p.m. I went to bed. As soon as I closed my eyes, I started telepathically hearing three different people talking sequentially. One was a man. I could hear his voice tones. It wasn’t in my own thought voice like it usually is. I couldn’t retain what they were saying. It did not make any sense to me. It was like I was eavesdropping on a conversation.

I knew right way then this evening before bed was different. It was a rare occasion of heightened Third Eye chakra activity.

Asking the Universe for Help in Recall

I asked the Universe to help me remember everything I experienced so I could chronicle it the next day as accurately as possible. I did not want to journal at the time it was occurring because I would totally break the momentum and interrupt my psychic reception.

Retention of specific words and sentences was difficult because the clairaudiency was jumping and moving to the next statement or phrase very quickly.

Straddling Dimensions

Then I received a strong clairvoyant vision. It was not just an image but a vision because it was in motion. I saw a young man in my Third Eye about seventeen years old. He was with two other women. The woman was extending her hand out to me for me to shake it. I knew they could see me. I asked them telepathically who they were but received no response back. Then the scene stopped and jumped.

Hearing The View Cohosts Telepathically

I received some more strong telepathic words in actual voices. I heard Meghan McCain, a cohost from the daily weekday show “The View” that I watch and record. This is one of my favorite shows. I love it because I feel it is intellectually stimulating with discussions on current events and also funny.

I recognized Meghan’s voice immediately. I was like “Why am I hearing her so clearly?” I think the only thing I can recall her saying was something about being sick. I thought maybe a level of her consciousness wanted to tell me something which is why I was psychically connecting with her in this way but that wasn’t it.

Then I heard Whoopi Goldberg’s actual voice and then Joy Behar’s. These are the other two female co-hosts of the show. I didn’t see them clairvoyantly but distinctly heard them. I could not recall the exact topic of their conversation when I chronicled this in the late morning the next day.

I thought they must be having a panel discussion like they do on their show but this time it was on another dimensional plane. As above, so below, the well-known hermetic principle is applicable here.

The First Clairvoyant Image of a Friend, Lisa

Then, I telepathically heard the name of someone I reconnected with recently. I will call her Lisa. I heard “Grateful…”

Let me give you some background on this. Lisa had reached out to me through social media a few weeks ago because she was depressed and said she was all alone. She must have reached out to me because she was a little familiar with the type of spiritual of metaphysical work I do. Prior to this point we had no connection other than she had attended a lecture I gave in South Florida in January of 2016. Prior. Out of compassion for her, I invited her out in the last two weeks to social events to get her out of the house. I felt she needed to do that. We had a good time together.

I guess my good deed hit the Universe radar the night of 4/12/18 with me receiving the telepathic words that she was grateful.  I love when I receive validation. I know in my heart I did a good thing out of kindness by talking to her on the phone for an hour, inviting her out on two occasions including driving her to the venue at one occasion and picking up the tab for parking garage fees. I did this without expectation of anything from her in return. I felt guided to help her and so I did. I knew I was called to duty in this way.

Then I heard telepathically in my own thought voice “She is Jewish.” That is correct. Lisa is Jewish but that is inconsequential to me but whoever this Being was that was commenting on it telepathically to me wanted to stress that fact about her. Kind of strange!

I have no prejudices against Jewish people. People are people. I aspire to treat everyone with compassion and fairly regardless of color, creed, ethnicity or religion. It is always fascinating to see what the Universe chooses to impart to me psychically. Many times, I feel it is a giant riddle or puzzle for me to figure out! Sometimes, it is just plain odd!

Prior Telepathic Information About Me Being Jewish

I will share some correlating information about hearing telepathically the word “Jewish.” About a week ago, I heard “You are Jewish,” telepathically. Also, on Easter morning of this year, when I woke up I heard telepathically in my own thought voice “You are Jewish.”

I am not Jewish in this lifetime. I was born in Turkey to parents of Moslem background. Currently, I do not practice the Moslem faith and consider myself non-denominational and more New-Age than anything. I am definitely not practicing the Jewish faith in this lifetime!

In the past few years, I have received clairvoyant images and psychic sensingness I was with Jesus. Also, I have heard I walked in the desert. When I developed plantar fasciitis about three years ago, I telepathically  heard it was because I walked in the desert! I have not walked in any deserts in this lifetime yet. So, I feel that in past lifetime(s), I probably was Jewish and maybe was involved in the Exodus across the desert. I think that energetic imprint of me being Jewish in past lifetime(s) must be very strong for the Universe to bring it up to me again like a reminder now telepathically.

Honoring Telepathic Information

Each morsel of telepathic information I receive, I do attempt to decipher its import. I know it takes a lot of effort and “ingenuity” to send and receive telepathic information, so I want to value it.

About the Florida Town I Moved To

It’s a synchronicity because when my husband and I moved to South Florida about ten years ago from the Northeast, we settled in a town that has a high percentage of Jewish people. Now, with this recent information reiterated to me psychically about me being Jewish, I feel it was the Law of Attraction that bought my husband and I to this town. I love the town we live in. It is beautiful, well-maintained and very clean.

My Guest

I asked the Being who was delivering the telepathic information to me “Please identify yourself. Who are you?” I wanted to know who it was that was making these observations about my friend to me. I did not receive an answer. I asked twice during this entire psychic interaction that night before sleep for the Being to identify themselves. After a short delay, I did telepathically hear “Your guest.” This is the first time, a “guest” has ever come forth this way to me telepathically.

Let me explain this further. For the past few years, I have been telepathically hearing I have “guests” and that there are “8 many.” So over time, I have gleamed and developed this theory that I have eight other consciousnesses blended in my energy field who are observing human behavior on Earth right now through my eyes. I feel they are invisible scientists, sociologists, psychologists, etc… I’m telepathically hearing it was a “pre-arrangement,” probably pre-incarnation. The term “guest” is significant as it denotes they are not intruders or invaders. That provides me with some comfort! Phew! I know this sounds way out there.

Correlation to the Movie “Cloud Atlas”

I highly recommend you see the 2012 movie “Cloud Atlas” starring Tom Hanks and Halle Berry. It showed how everything is connected, past, present and future. In one segment it showed how other high evolutionary beings go to primitive societies to help and observe them but not interfere.  I think this is exactly what it happening with my guests blending into my energy field to observe the behaviors, socieconomics, politics, etc… on Earth.

My Guests Followings Politics

With President Trump being elected in 2016, I started hearing these random words telepathically during the day about his presidency from time to time like “the investigation… Congress…Wiki leaks….” On 4/14/18 I  heard “Andrew McCabe” out of the blue during the day.  He is the Former FBI Deputy Director recently fired by the Justice Department’ two days before his retirement. It is because I receive such telepathic cues, spontaneously and randomly,  that I feel some of these Beings in my energy field are following current U.S. politics!

When I listen, watch or read the news, I sense “my guests” are very intrigued and curious by it in the background of my mind. Unusual, is it not?

Telepathic Information Jumping Around

This night it seemed like every other telepathic phrase I received was from another source. There was no continuity, coherence or logical streaming. It is like turning the station dial on a radio quickly and hearing quick snippets of random information every two or three seconds as the channels change. That is why it was hard for me to retain it and tell you exactly what I heard.

Challenges of Receiving Telepathy on Earth

As a human you can get frustrated with this when you are hearing telepathic information in this way. It is already a challenge to receive telepathy for the following reasons:

1) First of all, when you receive telepathic information you cannot see who is talking to you unless you receiving supporting clairvoyant images or visions at the same time of the Being who is expressing to you. Most of the time, I do not receive this type of supporting clairvoyancy. The words are is just coming into your head with no correlating pictures. For me as I stated earlier, 95% of the time, it is in my own thought voice, not in the Being’s voice. Receiving telepathy is just very different because this is not the way most human beings have been raised to communicate with each other!

I have gotten used to receiving telepathic information in the past nine years since my awakening. I had no choice. It was a spontaneous occurrence that initiated when I raised my consciousness in 2009.

2) Many times the telepathy does not come in a loud volume. Sometimes, it sounds like a soft whisper in your head.

At these times, I tell the Universe telepathically “Please turn up the volume. I cannot hear your clearly.” Then I will send the Universe a clairvoyant image of a giant human ear to let them know I can’t hear them. I also send them a volume meter and show them to turn the dial up! Ha! I figure if the Universe can send me clairvoyant images and visions, I could send them back such things as well. A picture is worth a thousand words!

To be honest, most of the time, the Universe does not honor my request to turn up the telepathy volume. Sigh!

Then I ask the Universe: “What can I do to receive this telepathy more clearly?” I want to be responsible for my part in all of this. At times, I have tried to raise my inner vibration by opening up my heart chakra in love and feeling peace. These are high vibrational feelings which I hope would raise my telepathy antenna for improved receptivity. But again, in honesty, the many times I have applied this, the telepathy stayed at the same low abysmal volume. In my book, I get a few points for trying these tactics! “A” for effort!

3) As I stated earlier another challenge with telepathy for me has been the telepathy jumps around. The analogy I used earlier with the radio is perfect and the best way for me to explain it. It is like turning the station dial on a radio quickly and hearing quick snippets of random information every two or three seconds as the radio channels change. That is why it was hard for me to retain the telepathy and tell you exactly what I heard.

How Humans Process Communication

Most human beings prefer linear, organized streams of language, sequenced properly for our mental comprehension and brain processing. This is how we write and how we speak to each other on Earth. We don’t say one sentence and then randomly flip the subject to a whole another topic and then say another sentence. Then flip to a whole other topic in the following sentence.

If we talked like that, we would be diagnosed with some sort of psychological disorder. But this is exactly the way I receive my telepathy at times. So you can see how it can be confusing! I am still experimenting with how to maneuver through this telepathy discombobulation!

The Practice of Increasing My Vibration

One of my ongoing practices is to consistently work on raising my inner vibration every day through emotional maturity, emotional balance and transcendence including forgiveness, nonjudgement, etc… I figure if I can raise my vibration in increments, I will develop the ability to receive clearer telepathy. But in addition, the bigger payoff, the True Goal in raising my vibration is that I am just happier, more at peace and emotionally resilient in my daily life. THAT IS A HUGE BENEFIT AND THAT IS MY SOUL EVOLVING! AMEN TO THAT!

Besides raising my inner vibration, there has to be another solution or a workaround to increasing my telepathic abilities! I just haven’t found it yet!

Any suggestions from my reading audience?

My Soul Lesson of Being a Test Subject in Psychic Training

In early 2018 I started receiving a type of psychic download, where I felt that learning how to navigate and handle myself in these type of hyperstimulating environments of psychic activity with the telepathy jumping around and not matching the clairvoyancy I was receiving was good training for me. The psychic downloads imparted to me that I needed to learn how to keep my emotional center to navigate in this type of heightened psychic environment

I am thankful the Universe downloaded this guidance to me as to how I should approach, perceive and maneuver effectively through the onslaught of discordant psychic information I receive from time to time. I am a lot more mature and calm in these type of circumstances, now. Instead of feeling sensory overwhelment, I attempt to learn how to adeptly maneuver through this psychic training ground. You can compare it to being a soldier in a war environment. You need to keep your focus on your objective even with the bombs, artillery fire and other physical and sound chaos going on around you.

Therefore, I have learned to release and detach from this expectation of wanting the telepathy spoon fed to me like a real-life conversation, perfectly neat, organized and coherent. I need to practice becoming more adept at managing the delivery of psychic information in this non-linear form.

I feel being a test subject could be one component of my soul contract. When I incarnated on Earth during this time, I must have agreed to voluntarily participant in this experiment as a human to see how a human being processes such psychic discordance when you receive it lucidly. The Universe is testing this bombardment of psychic activity on me  so when humanity is ready to receive their full-blown psychic senses they will be ready.

My OBEs that Substantiate I am a Test Subject of Sorts

I have had many out-of-body experiences since 2009 where I have been a test pilot or agent or a laboratory mouse of sorts undergoing experimental trials. At times during these OBEs, I can see the scientists in the background monitoring me in their white lab coats or even speaking to me through an ear piece and assessing my nervous system responses.

HELPFUL TIP FOR YOU: I would recommend the same tactics of keeping calm and doing your best to focus on one specific aspect of what you are viewing or hearing if you feeling overwhelmed with psychic information coming in different forms quickly, telepathically and visually and with the sound not matching the pictures. I want to save you the grief and struggles I had because I was ignorant and misunderstanding of these paranormal processes.

Back to the time before sleep when I was receiving heightened telepathic audio and clairvoyance:

Asking for Psychic Protection

I asked Archangel Michael and the Angel Sentinels to protect me and the space I was in because I felt like the telepathy was jumping or changing from every line. I did not want a dark entity to get access into my mind. I did not receive a response back from the Angels but I do trust they were there.

The Gatekeeper Guide

Then I asked my Gatekeeper guide “Gatekeeper, please do your job to ensure only high frequency Beings enter my telepathy range.” I did not receive a response back from my Gatekeeper on this. I know I have Gatekeeper(s). I don’t know their specific names and to date have not received clairvoyant images of them. However, I feel like there are a few of them, like three to four men sitting in a small control room and just monitoring the going ins and outs of my energy field on small screens in front of them. And now I am hearing telepathically as I write this they are “doing some vetting.”

The Gatekeeper guide is a known type of guide in the field of metaphysics we all are supposed to have for our security. In addition, as part of our etheric team of guides, metaphysics teaches we have a Master Teacher guide, Doctor guide, etc…

Importance of Detachment from Psychic Expectation

This is not unusual not to receive telepathic answers back to my questions or comments. I have gotten used to this since my spiritual awakening in 2009. But I keep trying and just detach emotionally if I don’t receive a conscious remark back.

It has been like this for years. I used to get so frustrated, angry and low vibrational that my Guides were not cooperating with me and not sending me clear, audible telepathic information to help me understand what I was hearing. I thought they were being mean and uncompassionate.

I am in year 9 of my spiritual awakening. At about year 5 or so, I started to calm down and just let go of expecting to receive any explanatory information back when I asked telepathically questions to the Universe. I am so glad I learned to do this. As I am typing this, I’m telepathically hearing I “adapted.”

The Second Clairvoyant Image of a Friend, Sandi

Back to the time before sleep when I was receiving heightened telepathic audio and clairvoyance:

Then I received a large headshot of one of my friends. I will call her Sandi. We are not close friends by any means. We see each other every few months and only in the last year have we renewed our friendship because I felt guided to do so. In the past five years I have known her, we have gotten together about five times. I always reach out to her first and it is always for a social outing. We do not email, text or communicate to each other in the interim. This is to give you an idea of the frequency of our contact and the superficial nature of our relationship. When we do see each other, I always have a good time and enjoy being with her. She has a spiritual practice she follows and which I resonate with.

The Importance of Being Impeccable with Your Word

I have been slightly concerned about her in the past three weeks because three times we made plans which I initiated to get together and last-minute. Each time, unexpectedly,  she backed out without a reason and last-minute.

Because of this, I have been pondering whether to change our friendship status because she does not have the same values as I do in regard to common courtesy.  At the same time I was having thoughts to reach out to her and ask her if she was okay because she was acting so erratically. As I stated earlier, this was not a deep friendship. Our relationship is still very new and is not a tried and true friendship.

In the past, I would have gotten angry at someone for inconsiderateness, especially a so-called “friend.” This time, I observed her behavior, accepted it, noted it and did not get angry or frustrated. If anything, I was confused about her actions. I could tell by the lack of my emotional reactivity, I have made great strides in the mastery of my emotions. In the  past, that would have been an emotional trigger for me.

The wonderful book “The Four Agreements” by Don Ruiz  has an agreement “Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. I attempt to be impeccable and have integrity with my word. I was raised this way.  If I tell someone I will do something or go somewhere, I do my best to honor it or give them enough advance notice if I can’t. I My motto is to under promise and over deliver. That is always a nice surprise to the person on the receiving end.

I never over promise and under deliver as I have experienced that first hand. That is just feeling the air being release from your balloon. As much as possible, I do not commit to someone off the cuff. If I don’t think I can keep a promise, I don’t make it. I just keep quiet. I have witnessed too many people bluster, talk big, make plans and promise someone the moon and then not follow through. The ball would get dropped or the ball wouldn’t even be picked up to be dropped. In situations like this, the other party involved will just get hurt and disappointed. Also, after more occurrences of that, one may not believe anything you say.  That is just obvious to me. So then why do so many people not keep their word when they know they are going to be disappointing people?

Because I strive to have integrity with my word and have been like that for as long as I can remember, that is the way I am, I expect others to extend the same courtesy to me. I am not saying I did not have a few lapses over the years but those are far and few in between. Being reliable, dependable and considerate are all aspects of kindness and compassion. These are all high evolutionary divine traits and a marker of how spiritual evolved one is.  This is a major them of my upcoming second book on Emotional Healing through Spiritual Awakening.

I don’t feel it is asking for too much from people or being unreasonable to expect people to honor their words or promises and to give you timely notice when possible when extenuating circumstances came up or if they are running late.  That is good manners.

In the past I would have labeled such behavior from a friend disrespectful and even rude for late cancelling more than once if it were not an emergency. But because I aspire toward emotional mastery, I have been working daily on becoming more compassionate, less judgmental and viewing people events through another lens, the one of love and kindness. I am getting into the pattern of asking “How can I help them?” instead of judging them.

This time as I pondered my friend’s erratic behaviors and inability to keep her word recently, I felt she was sending out “a cry for love.”  That is a phrase from A Course in Miracles. She was not able to communicate to me clearly and honesty and just say “Look, Katibe. I am having some challenges in my life right now so I am unable to keep my commitments. ” Instead, she chooses these low vibrational behavioral responses of saying yes to an outing and then backtracking in silence.  Proper communications would alleviate so many of the misunderstandings human beings carry.

My Authentic Feelings

I haven’t reached out to her to help her but hope to in the near future. Maybe receiving this spontaneous, honking large clairvoyant image of her before bed in my Third Eye was a tickler for me to do so. Is it time for me to be the big person and extend my hand out to her? My ego would respond by saying she should be the one reaching out to me as she was the one who did not keep her word. I know that is just being petty on my part. I like to share authentically as I am an evolving soul like everyone else on this planet and am learning along side every one else to be more and more an expressed Being of Love.

It is so important not to deny your emotions, repress them and pretend you are not feeling them. That just leads to trouble including emotional eruptions at a future date. I am sharing how I process certain life events so you can learn alongside me.

It just seems like I am always the one making this endeavor forth for unity and understanding.  I know it is one of my roles to be that emotionally mature, that is part of my soul contract, but sometimes, I just get tired of it.

I will continue to tune into myself.  When I am in a better frame of mind and when I feel guided by the Universe, I will reach out to her with gentleness and compassion rather than being accusing and antagonizing. I am not there yet and I don’t sense the energy for these type of actions at this time. I don’t sense it is the right time. Maybe I will have an OBE, experience a related synchronicity or just intuitively know when the time is right to proceed.  Right now, I don’t feel a rush to action from the Universe. I can “abide” my time.

Chronological Age vs. Emotional Maturity

Many of my friends and people I know are older than me, in their sixties and seventies. Sometimes, I am like you haven’t learned that yet? You are still walking around your life with that specific emotionally immature attitude? This clearly show to me why these people are not in healthy, thriving relationships. It is understandable to me when people are in their teens, twenties and even thirties but at some point, you think they would have learned some important soul lessons. It is very evident to me that some people have not as they approach their senior years. Therein lies my work and the work of many other light workers. It is never too late to emotionally heal.

I know this may sound judgmental but it is an observation correlating the quality of people’s’ lives and relationships to their actions and behaviors and ultimately their underlying thoughts.

We are all children in the eyes of Source. But almost every week, I am surprised by some of the words and immature behaviors of those who are chronologically older than me. Then I see how much work the light workers on this planet have and how we cannot live in Utopia till many emotionally heal.

I know I have gone on at length about this but the clairvoyant image of Sandi I received out of the blue initiated this introspection. Maybe that was the intention behind it. The Universe delivered this purposefully for me to have this revelatory introspection and share it with the masses.

Receiving Images of Your Soul Tribe. I feel both these women, Lisa and Sandi, are in my soul tribe. That is why I received these clear clairvoyant images of them that night. It must be significant to me. Of all the images for the Universe to send me, I received these.

Feeling Like I Could Trance Channel. After receiving these clairvoyant images of my two friends, I felt a Being wanted to come through me in bed. I actually uttered a sound or two out loud and said “You could…”. Those were the Being’s words through my vocal chords.

My head spontaneously moved back and forth one time in a funny way. Also, my pointing finger on my right hand  lifted up spontaneously and then right back down. These are some of the cues for me that a Being is blending in my energy field.

(To learn more about trance channeling, please see my blog post: http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/5415-important-info-about-trance-channeling/)

The thing is the Being that was attempting to come through had nothing to do with the telepathy I was receiving at the time or the clairvoyance I was seeing. In addition, my body was twitching in a funny way, I felt energy at the throat and two strong energy waves around my head. Do you see how overwhelming this can be to someone? It is a lot for someone to handle. Seeing, hearing and sensing three different streams of psychic information at the same time and all of it not matching up.

In My Psychic Utopia World

In my psychic utopia world, I would receive an announcement telepathically first introducing a Being was coming through me i.e. “Mr. Edgar Cayce is going to come through you now.” Then I would receive a clear, clairvoyant image of him as support. Then he would express himself using my voice. See how smooth that would be? How loving and compassionate that would be to the channeler?

But instead I am hearing a random voice talking telepathically, then seeing other non-related clairvoyant images as my body is doing funny things!

Me, oh my! I signed up for this as part of my soul lesson to be a psychic test subject  so I need to pull up my big girl britches, roll up my sleeves and roll with it!

Helpful Tip On Receiving Psychic Information: I share this to show you all the forms and ways you may receive psychic information and how it may not be so clear-cut for some. Other psychics may share different guidance. I am speaking straight from my own direct experiences. I may be unique in what I receive psychically and the way I receive it due to my own unique soul contract.

Please share any relevant experiences by commenting below. I would love to read them!

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Know I am the only editor of this post so please excuse any grammatical or editing errors. Because I gift this as a free resource for my readers as part of my soul’s service during this incarnation, I do not pay anyone to help me with the editing. Also, most of the time I just want to get this knowledge posted and out to the public so I do just a few editing passes. But gosh darn it even after proofing it a few times, there always seems to be some typos I overlooked! I know distribution of these sharings is important and my etheric Guides do not want me to spend excessive time and effort on being an editing perfectionist.

Thank-you in advance for your understanding and please forgive me for any errors you may encounter!

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I am an advanced channeler of Light Beings.  I provide guidance from many different Light Beings and shares their wisdom on my Facebook, blog, videos and in my free eBook.  I am unique in that I channel these Beings word for word through telepathic means.  They act as high level guides and teachers to help you on your life journey.

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Out of Body Experience: Dimensional Host Family & Seeing My Uncle In-Spirit

OBE Space For Blog Post - Host Family

Welcome, I share an amazing lucid OBE (out-of-body experience) I had on 4/6/18 to show how you can have a non-Earth dimensional adventure in an altered state of consciousness and see a loved one in-spirit. An altered state of consciousness can be during a deep meditation, your sleep state or in your hypnogogic (right before sleep) or hypnopompic state (right after waking up from sleep). Your spirit wants to have these experiences so it acts as the navigator.  This OBE  falls under the categories I created of OBEs with an Alternate Dimensional Host Family and OBEs to Connect with a Loved One In-Spirit as laid out in my OBE conceptual framework.

I have developed this OBE conceptual framework, including definitions, to help others who are having similar experiences and for people in general to understand this topic and to introduce the concept of our human multidimensionality. Human beings exist on many levels of consciousness which allows them to visit and exist on other dimensional realms. Our consciousness is complex and goes far beyond then just our conscious and subconscious states.  Within our subconscious state there are multiple tiers of consciousness.

We can lucidly experience this in our altered states of consciousness. We have past, present, concurrent and future lifetimes. I know this because I have experienced these in OBEs and received telepathic information on these since my spiritual awakening in 2009.

We are quite complex. In states of deep relaxation as in meditation or sleep we can catch glimpses of these and recall our experiences.

OBEs are not readily talked about. It is a new frontier of human consciousness. This blog post is fulfillment of my soul mission to teach others about OBEs.  I am a pioneer like Amelia Earhart was in females in aviation. And I did receive that clairvoyant vision of her, not just an image but a moving vision, of her.

My OBE conceptual framework is evolving which I tweak, including adding to and enhancing, as I need to with each OBE I experience.  It is an evolving work in process. I started developing this framework in the Spring of 2009 of my spiritual awakening when I started having numerous lucid OBEs. I wanted to understand what I was experiencing and see if there were any patterns. Hence, I created the framework.

Now, nine years later of having numerous OBEs, I feel good about this framework. I also received a telepathic validating message in my own thought voice in 2018 that I am beginning to understand the nature of OBEs.  But I know, there is more I will be adding to it as I learn and acquire the information.

Please read the blog post below first  if you haven’t already to give you context and a basic foundation to help you understand OBEs from my theoretical construct. I highly advise you to do this supplemental reading. If you don’t, you may be confused with what I share below.

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/out-of-body-experiences-conceptual-framework/

Many of my OBEs happen spontaneously and naturally when I am sleeping which is how this one occurred.

You can learn more about me at the end of this post.

Enjoy!

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I share this OBE as an example from my conceptual OBE framework from the three categories of OBEs as dimensional learning platforms for your soul lessons, OBEs with an Alternate Dimensional Host Family and OBEs to Connect with a Loved One In-Spirit.

OBEs as dimensional learning platforms for your soul lessons and/or  validation to what you are doing on the Earthly plane. You can get your soul lessons in OBEs as I do often. The Universe never misses an opportunity for soul expansion. It is efficient and will use whatever means including OBEs to help you learn. Important timely guidance and affirmation  for your Earthly life may be imparted.  Your Spirit may intentionally take you to another dimensional realm to learn what important attributes you need to develop to project out into the world at this specific time juncture.

Because the Universe is so creative and unconventional with its infinite organizing power, it is important to do a traditional psychological interpretation of any OBE you experience, besides taking it at face value. There may be important symbology embedded within it you can use almost immediately to help you in your Earthly life. Don’t ignore this valuable modality of guidance.

OBEs with an Alternate Dimensional Host Family – In this type of OBE you may spend some time, hours, a night or some other time duration with an unfamiliar family. It is like a visit where a gracious family has allowed you into their home. It is similar to a student exchange program where a family hosts a foreign student. But in this scenario the dimensional family hosts an astral traveler.  I have experienced this type of OBE a few times. In this blog post, I detail one of these recent OBEs.

In this category of OBE, you may or may not necessarily experience or unusual unique dimensional aspects and the existences and lifestyle you view may be very similar to the Earthly plane. It is a more of a mundane OBE.  Nevertheless, I cherish and appreciate these type of OBEs because I am always touched by the generosity of these other dimensional families to open up their homes to me.

OBEs to connect with loved-ones in-spirit –  Because we are eternal consciousnesses, our life continues on after physical passing. Our lives continue on after death. This is when one part of a one’s consciousness transitions to the afterlife without their physical shell.  During an OBE, you may be able to reconnect with people who died on another dimensional platform.  These types of OBEs can happen naturally or be initiated. When it is initiated,  one intentionally holds the focus before sleep to connect with a specific relative  or loved one in-spirit in an OBE.

I have had many OBEs where I saw or interacted with loved ones in-spirit. These are always amazing experiences and shows how magnificent the Universe is in its design and inner workings.

With intentionality. To date, I have not initiated this type of OBE to intentionally connect with those on the other side. I have read you can do this and I believe this is possible. I have not had much success with having specific destinations or people to interact with in OBEs. I have not tried hard to do this though.  I leave it in the able and good hands of my Spirit to determine what kind of OBE I need to experience for my growth and learning and don’t interfere with it with my small, egoic mind.

In all honesty, I like to let my loved ones rest in peace and continue their journey on the other side and not bother or intrude on them. I am doing AOK on my life journey here on Earth without having to go to them for counsel. I figure if they want to reach out to me, they know how to find me. I will welcome that engagement when they are ready and make the first overture!

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4/6/18 OBE Sequence .This OBE ended somewhere before 3:00am. I became lucid to find myself in an interior room. I feel I was in Turkey, the country where I was born. I had been dropped off at this family’s house by my younger brother and my Turkish uncle who I call Ahmet Abi.

You can say I was a guest in this family’s house. They were unfamiliar to me. This family had two attractive, slender daughters with dark, thick hair who appeared to be in their early twenties. They were well-educated and refined. I thought they were a type of aristocratic family.

Seeing Ibrahim, In-Spirit, My Father’s Brother. My father’s older brother, Ibrahim, made a brief appearance in this home. On the Earthly plane after moving from Bulgaria he had lived in Turkey with his family. Because he lived in a foreign country and my family migrated to America, I did not have a close relationship with him. He passed in his sixties over 35 years ago. Till this date, he has never appeared in my dreams before.  Also, I have never received a clairvoyant image of him or any other type of psychic sensingness related to him since his transition to the afterlife.

In this OBE we didn’t exchange words. I just saw him for a few seconds.

My Stay with the Dimensional Host Family. I knew I had stayed the entire day with this family. Now, it was about 5 p.m. I was helping to put away the dishes from the food that had been served earlier. I like to be helpful to the host and hostess that way. There were two small pieces of chocolate cake left on two plates. I quickly shoved them into my mouth and hoped the family wouldn’t notice it and wouldn’t mind I did that. In the 3-D I do have a penchant for chocolate. Ha! Seeing or eating sweet treats like this commonly comes up in my OBEs as well.

About three more people came in. I realized this family had dinner plans with them for the evening. It was time for me to go. I called my brother on the phone and told him to pick me up because this family had other plans for dinner and I didn’t want to keep them from that. That would not be polite of me.

The family was very patient. They stayed with me graciously.  They did not rush me or become impatient or irritated that I was holding them back as I waited for my brother and uncle to arrive to pick me up.  Their compassionate demeanor meant a lot to me.

The OBE dissipated.

OBE Analysis

Psychological Analysis to Correlate it To My Earthly life. As I stated in my conceptual framework, it is always a good exercise to analyze your OBEs from a psychological perspective as possible guidance for your current Earthly existence. You can get your soul lessons in OBEs as I do often. The Universe never misses an opportunity for soul expansion.  Intuitively, I feel confident that this OBE was as I chronicled and analyzed  below.

Upon waking up from this OBE, I still felt deeply touched with this family’s generosity to open their home to me. They didn’t even know me that well.  Graciousness and generosity are highly evolutionary divine traits. I would love to deepen those attributes within me. I am attracted to these traits.

How do you know these are your soul lessons? It is the intensity of your attraction to, desire of and magnetism toward certain traits which are the leading cues that they are indeed, significant for your soul development in this lifetime.

When I see people in my life exhibiting genuinely graciousness and generosity without expectation of reciprocity I am always touched to my heart and drawn to it.  I feel on a soul level I incarnated on Earth during this time to develop further certain traits. Not that I am negligent in these qualities but I can achieve deeper, richer levels of these.  We all can go deeper in our divine qualities.

I also am thankful I saw my uncle-in spirit. I feel that it is a sign of my growing awarenesses,  expanded consciousness and a marker of lucid multidimensionality to be able to connect in this alternate dimension with my relative in-spirit. Beautiful!  Though we didn’t talk, I’ll take it!

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Because of my awakening my dream time also changed dramatically.  As a result I became a lucid dreamer. I have blogged about and shared videos of some of my more extraordinary OBEs.

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Out of Body Experience: Adventures-Unusual Dimensional Boat

OBE Space For Blog Post - Adventure OBE

Welcome, I share an amazing lucid OBE I had on 3/27/18 to show how you can have a non-Earth dimensional adventure. Human beings love to take vacations as a break and reprieve from their day-to-day mundane life. The same occurs when you are in altered state of consciousness, whether it be during a deep meditation or during your sleep state. You want to experience some fun and joy. This OBE illustrates that perfectly. It falls under the category I created of OBEs for Adventure, Fun, Joy and Recreation in my OBE conceptual framework.

I have developed an OBE (out-of-body experience) conceptual framework, including definitions, to help others who are having similar experiences and for people in general to understand this topic and to introduce the concept of our human multidimensionality. Human beings exist on many levels of consciousness. It goes far beyond our conscious and subconscious state.  Within our subconscious state there are multiple tiers of consciousness.

We can experienced this in our altered states of consciousness like in deep meditations and our sleep time when we can retain our  lucidity levels.  We have past, present, concurrent and future lifetimes. We are quite complex. In states of deep relaxation as in meditation or sleep we can catch glimpses of these if we are lucid.

OBEs are not readily talked about. It is a new frontier of human consciousness. This blog post is fulfillment of my soul mission to teach others about OBEs.  I am a pioneer like Amelia Earhart was in females in aviation. And I did receive that clairvoyant vision of her, not just an image but a moving vision, of her!

My OBE conceptual framework is evolving which I tweak as I need to with each OBE I experience, including adding to and enhancing.  It is a work in process. I started developing this framework in the Spring of 2009 of my spiritual awakening when I started having numerous lucid OBEs. I wanted to understand what I was experiencing and see if there were any patterns. Hence, I created the framework. And now, nine years later of having numerous OBEs, I feel good about it. But I know, there is more I will be adding…

Please read this blog post below first  if you haven’t already to give you context and a basic foundation to help you understand OBEs from my theoretical construct. If you don’t read this, you may be confused with what I share below!

http://soulevolutioncenter.com/blog/out-of-body-experiences-conceptual-framework/

Many of my OBEs happen spontaneously and naturally when I am sleeping which is how this one occurred.

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I share this OBE as an example from my conceptual OBE framework in the category of OBEs for Adventure, Fun, Joy and Recreation:

3/27/18 OBE Unusual Features of the Dimensional Boat. There is more to this OBE which I have not shared because it is not relevant.

Earthly foreshadowing: This past Friday 3/23/18 my husband, daughter and I were just talking about the Turkey Trip in 2016 we had. That is where I was born. My siblings, our children and I took the most amazing two-week sight-seeing trip together at that time.  We talked about the amazing gulet boat trip on  the Mediterranean. And then lo and behold, a few days later I had this OBE.

I became lucid to find myself in large personal boat. (Note: Upon waking from this OBE when I contemplated it, I kept hearing “gulet” telepathically to let me know what type of OBE boat it was, so I will use that term to describe this boat. A gulet is a traditional design of a two-masted or three-masted wooden sailing vessel .)

I am lucid. I am in the interior of a boat. The boat is wide perhaps 20 feet wide and 30 feet long. But the interior of this boat is above the water line like the gulet was.

I was sitting in the back of the inside of the boat. The boat was full. There were about fifteen small kids on front of the boat. They were running around and having fun. The female owner of the boat was sitting in front of me. She had a smile on her face and looked content. She was not a relative. I was just a welcome visitor on her dimensional boat.

Her Husband Driving the Boat. I wondered who was driving the boat if she was sitting there. I asked her. She said something like it was her husband and her son. Sure enough, I saw a corpulent older man with gray hair sitting in front of her in what looked like a white polo shirt. Next to him was their son, a husky young man in his early twenties or so.

I relaxed knowing the boat was being driven. I thought this man was incredibly patient to be on this boat with so many young’uns. I thought he must just love boating and wanted to be out on the water and didn’t care who else and how many were on the boat.

There was a very narrow pass through the boat had to go through. I thought it would be impossible to make it but we safely boated through. On the earth, a boat that size would have never made it through.

I walk toward the front of the inside of the boat. I see two small couches and comfy chair to my left. It is a cozy seating area. It looked like a small living room. I am surprised to see this in a boat. It was not a typical boating seating arrangement and looked like it belonged more in a house than a boat.

I notice the span of rectangular windows a few feet above the floor that run along the entire interior of the boat from the left to the right of the boat. I am impressed by all this. This boat gets a lot of interior light because of those windows. Sometimes, the insides of boats can be dark like caves. Not this one! I am naturally drawn to light infused areas so you can see why this was meaningful to me.

I walk toward the front of the boat. There is a small built-in pool about ten feet by ten feet! I am amazed. I tell the female owner I love her boat. She just smiles at me. I tell her I will probably use that pool.

There is more to this OBE which is irrelevant.

I loved this OBE! It was fun! I love when I am an invited guest in these OBEs and can just tag along for these amazing experiences without having any emotional conflict, etc… . I am thankful to the female boat owner who allowed me to be on her gulet boat!  She was a generous hostess!

Astral Traveler Exchange Program

Just think about that. It is like you on the Earth inviting someone into your house, car or boat without knowing them or being related to them. It is like a student exchange program ! Ha! Love it! But in this case it is an astral traveler exchange program! Awesome!